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My Moment With Brando

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I put on an act sometimes, and people think I'm insensitive. Really, it's like a kind of armour because I'm too sensitive. If there are two hundred people in a room and one of them doesn't like me, I've got to get out.

-- Marlon Brando


Casa Vega is an institution in The Valley -- very little has changed since owner Ray Vega opened the doors in 1956.

The place was usually packed when my friends and I would go, and the later the hour the more crowded the Casa V. was -- big draws were the superb margarita and the attendant Happy Hour, with appetizers, and on any given night you might see any number of television stars and celebs and actors at the bar or in the darkened dining room.

One night in 1995 or so, the four of us had finished our typically yummy dinner at Casa V., and were making our way out of the dark and crowded dining room, when I spotted Brando...

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No doubt of it, Marlon.


"Hey, STELLA!"/"What are you rebelling against ?" "Whaddya got ?"/"Nobody tells me..."/"I couldah been a contender. I couldah been somebody, instead of a bum... which is what I am, let's face it."/"Get the butter."/"Do you spend time with your family?"/"I'm gonna make him an offer he can't refuse."/"I spent my whole life trying not to be careless."/"The horror. The horror." Brando !

He was seated on the outside edge of one of the round booths, with four or five guys all chatting and nibbling and drinking away the evening -- except for Brando.

He had his back to his companions, hunched over the edge of the seat, staring with an extreme ferocity into the dining room, searching like some kind of radar, skittering from this person to that, while absentmindedly consuming one tortilla chip after another as a wood chipper might, but never breaking his view of the room and the diners, not looking to see where the chips were.

It was one of those "frozen-slowed-car-crash-uh-oh" kind of moments... I passed within a foot or two of him, not wanting to make a big deal out of it, trying to respect his privacy, but all the same probably staring at him all the while, and as he returned my stare for a brief moment, it seemed as though some otherworldly "something" had just happened.

It was a very strange feeling locking eyes with Brando.

He was like some form of recording device, taking in all the gestures and expressions (those that were visible in the dark), while crunching one chip after another, totally disconnected from his dining partners, and "at one" with the dining room.

One of the assets many high-profile people, actors in particular, possess is an uncanny ability to cloak themselves in obscurity, to actively not attract attention. Brando was cloaked that night and it was only when almost on top of him that it was clear it really was Brando.

My friends and I exited and while waiting for the valet to bring the car around, I asked them if they'd also spotted Brando, to which Norma practically jumped out of her skin and after making certain she'd heard me say what she thought I said, jammed her coat into my arms and said, "I think I left my coat inside..." and with that went rushing back into the dining room.

She emerged moments later saying, for all standing around the valet area to hear, "OMG, it *WAS* Brando!"

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New Artist Reviews: Tetra

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The resurgence of the female voice is creating a shift in the music industry. Inundated by images and sounds of manufactured pop stars, finding genuine talent speaking raw human emotion is giving meaning back to the female voice. Shining brightly amidst the miasma of mainstream is Los Angeles based singer/songwriter Tetra, the emotive queen of electropop.

Studying at the highly acclaimed Berklee College of Music in Boston, Tetra's vocal abilities are as powerful as they are gossamer, and as commanding as they are empathetic. Her innate talent was manifested long before her time spent at Berklee. She began singing and songwriting at a very young age but it wasn't until her collaboration with singer, songwriter and producer, Ben Cohen that her true sound came oozing out of her like magma emerging from a dormant volcano. The sound had always been there, it just took the right timing and elements to evoke it.

Her new seven song EP titled Meter is melodic and eloquently produced as well as exquisitely mastered. Anthemic and melancholy at times, her transparent lyrics make this album highly evocative and connective to the listener. Singing candidly about the duality of human emotions has become lost in mainstream pop music. Tetra's voice, her vocal voice as well as her message, creates a vast, sonic landscape that takes the listener on an emotional and unforgettable journey.

The thumping, mischievous track "Bad Things" opens the album with a sensual allure and velvety vocals that instantly hook the listener. The ethereal tone of "Limbo" shows Tetra's range both vocally and lyrically. "Got You Alone" shows an edgier, more dark side of Tetra that is both haunting and titillating. "Reason To Breathe" introduces once again the thumping pulse of electronic beats as she confesses her soul's desires, weaknesses and vulnerabilities.

"Poison" pulls us in with a crescendo, casting the listener into Tetra's witchy, lyrical spell. Softening up a bit with a chilling piano melody is "Ruby Red Lips," a mysteriously intriguing track that leaves you wondering of whom these ruby red lips are attached to. Concluding Meter is "The Tunnel," an eerie and iridescent soundscape created by Tetra's spellbinding world.

Beautiful, brave, poetic and honest, like a siren who knows not of her alluring gift, Tetra's EP Meter is explosive. She brings listeners deep into her narrative, taking us on a sonic journey through her psyche. Laying bare her vulnerabilities, strengths, weaknesses and more, the spectrum of human emotion she evokes is vast. Mysterious yet transparent, Tetra allows her listeners to take a subjective approach to her music. What one may hear as a song about heartache another may hear as a song of empowerment. Thus is the universal beauty of music.

Without the need to disguise herself in a grandiose facade, she has made herself even more beautiful than the glitterati of the mainstream music industry. It is easy to be swallowed by sellouts and pop icons, but Tetra has achieved true success through honesty, authenticity, talent and a beauty that is outside of and within her. Tetra is a musical pioneer that is keeping the power of the female voice conscious and awake.

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The Science of Jurassic World

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Jurassic World, which opens today, is a terrific film -- as good as the previous three in the franchise, including the first. I saw it in 3D, so my comparison is with the previous 2D versions, and it really comes to life in this format. But such dimensional matters aside, the plot is feasible enough to enable even the most skeptical viewer to willing suspend disbelief enough to accept the premise as plausible, which is the genetic engineering of a completely new type of dinosaur that never existed in the Jurassic. This was done under the advisement of the most famous dinosaur digger in the world, paleontologist Jack Horner, who has been the science advisor for the film franchise, including this latest installment.

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I've known Jack since the early 1990s when I first helped him dig up a dino on a site in Montana (it's much harder work to release the fossil treasure embedded in solid rock using dental picks than it appears in the film, in which workers easily brush away loose dirt with a small brush). When I arrived at Horner's camp I was surprised to come upon a patient historical scientist, sitting cross-legged before a cervical vertebrate from a 140-million year old Apatosaurus (formerly known as Brontosaurus), wondering what to make of it. A reporter from a local paper asked Horner what this discovery meant for the history of dinosaurs. Did it change any of his theories? Where was the head? Was there more than one body at this site? Horner's answers were consistent with those of the cautious scientist: "I don't know yet." "Beats me." "We need more evidence." "We'll have to wait and see."

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Horner's scientific thoroughness comes through on screen as the science behind Jurassic World paralleled that of his work on back-engineering a dinosaur from modern bird DNA because, we now know, there is no viable DNA available from the Jurassic period, not even left over inside Jurassic mosquitos embedded in amber, which was the premise of Michael Crichton's novel and Steven Spielberg's first film in the franchise, Jurassic Park. Instead, as Jack explained to me in an "in conversation" we had at the Natural History Museum of Los Angeles a few days before the film was released, since we know dinosaurs evolved into birds, that means bird DNA contains the remnants of their dino ancestors. As Horner explained in his 2009 book How to Build a Dinosaur: Extinction Doesn't Have to be Forever (and in his TED talk on de-extinction), you can turn on dormant genes to get them to build body parts, including a dino-like tail, snout and even teeth. Because of their availability, chickens work well, so Jack intends to build what he calls a "Chickenosaurus." As he told me, "If we can reinstate ancestral characteristics in a bird to make a dinosaur, you can't have ancestral characteristics unless you have an ancestor. That is proof of evolution."

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As if anyone needs proof of evolution. Unfortunately they do, at least in America, so films like Jurassic World serve another purpose of value to those of us concerned about the state of U.S. science education (we're usually ranked toward the bottom of the most prosperous Western industrialized nations in the world): science education. Subtly, but poignantly, the science of Jurassic World sneaks in evolutionary biology without calling it that. Take Hen's teeth. We've known for decades how to turn on the ancestral genes for teeth in a chicken (see Stephen Jay Gould's 1983 book Hen's Teeth and Horse's Toes), which would be impossible if all creatures were created in one brief burst of genesis six thousand years ago. Instead, genetic engineering is showing us how to find the genetic fossils of animal ancestry. This is now done through transgenics, as Horner explained to me: "If you're going to try to make a dinosaur, transgenically is as good a way as finding ancestral genes. Transgenic dinosaurs are what we created in Jurassic World. We have a hybrid dinosaur that's a mixture of several types of dinosaurs, plus mixtures of genes from several types of animals." The result is one of the most terrifying monsters in monster film history: Indominus Rex, a mix of T-Rex and Velociraptor, with a few other features thrown in for good measure, such as the cuddle fish ability to create camouflage to match nearly any background environment. Horner continued his explanation as I pressed him for details about how realistic any of this is:

We will make the dino-chicken-like animal pretty soon. We're moving pretty quickly, but making a dinosaur that would look like a Velociraptor would take a lot longer. The more genes we learn about, what they do, and how to turn them on and off, the closer we come.

All birds share a common ancestor. Once we have the technology, we think it'll work on any bird. Chickens just happen to be the easiest birds to come by.


Jurassic World adds another feature not seen in the franchise before, and that is how to train a dinosaur. The film's hero employs the techniques used by animal trainers in venues like Sea World, so I asked Jack about this because these training techniques work on mammals. How would they work on reptilian creatures?

We also know dinosaurs were social. For years, we've found dinosaur nesting grounds and evidence that they cared for their young. And birds live in social groups. That had to come from somewhere; I don't think they invented it on their own.

We think of birds and reptiles as separate, but birds are dinosaurs, and therefore, reptiles. If you look at it genetically, crocodiles are closer to birds than lizards.


But would they be intelligent enough to understand trainers' signals, such as the "click" system popular among Sea World trainers (as featured in the disturbing film Black Fish, about the training of Killer Whales)? Horner continued by puncturing yet another anthropocentrism:

This brings up the whole intelligence thing with dinosaurs and this side of that [evolutionary] tree. We're so mammal-centric. We think we're so smart; we're even mammal-centric about where our brain is located -- in our heads.

Dinosaurs not only had a cranial brain, but a pelvic brain, enlarged ganglia that birds also have. If you add together the volume of the brain and ganglia, it's as high as most mammals. Parrots are really smart and we don't think of ducks as smart, and their brain/body ratios are about the same.


In the first Jurassic Park film reference is made to a "blood sucking lawyer," so that made me wonder about the legal aspect of a place like Jurassic World, that services 20,000 customers a day. Horner:

We know that dinosaurs are not that scary. You could have dinosaurs on the Serengeti. As long as you keep your windows up, you could go on safari and look at them. They're not going to tear open your vehicle to get you.

If you went to Jurassic Park, you'd see a whole bunch of dinosaurs sleeping. Animals also don't kill for fun. It's dangerous to kill another animal. You are putting you're life in danger. You could have Jurassic World at the L.A. Zoo. There's a lot worse things running up the freeway.


Go see Jurassic World and learn some science, but mostly just have a good adventure because the film delivers that in spades.

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New Artist Reviews: Nature Ganganbaigal

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The language of music is one that can be understood universally. Some music even has the power to communicate cosmically, through penetrating frequencies and otherworldy dimensions. Music can act as a conduit to express human emotion in a way that words cannot define. It also has the power to control human emotion with its multitudes of tones and combinations of sounds. In film, music is a highly emotive force that resonates through spectators emotional strings like the plucking of a harp. It can send chills, celebrate triumph, inspire romance and evoke sadness. What is even more powerful than the music itself is its creator.

Nature Ganganbaigal is a Mongolian music composer and horse-head fiddle player from China who has recently completed his Masters in Music at New York University with a concentration in Scoring for Film and Multimedia. He has received several accolades and is the winner of New York University's 2014 Film Score Competition. His winning score was performed on Broadway. Becoming a regular in the film festival world, Nature's cosmic sounds are unique and recognizable. He has even dabbled in the world of video game music composition.

In addition to his masterful composing abilities, Nature is also an accomplished Mongolian horse-head fiddle player, an ancient string instrument that plays the sounds of Mongolian culture. With one foot rooted in his Chinese past and the other sharing these roots with an American audience, Nature is a well-rounded musician who is even the composer and lead singer of Tengger Cavalry, an internationally recognized rock band.

Noisey wrote, "His tightly-held beliefs in Tibetan Buddhism and shamanism provide a deeper source for the positive message behind his music." His genre-bending Mongolian folktronica paints beautiful images of sweeping landscapes, surreal vistas and moments of triumph. With so many complex layers of sound, Nature's creations are vast and spellbinding, captivating and magical. Without words, he teaches the listener of an ancient time, rich with color, culture and sensory bliss.

In September of 2014 he released his first solo album titled To Where Tengger Leads Me. All 12 tracks tell a sonic story of heroism, ancient culture, animal spirits, adventure, and the majesty of the Chinese landscape. While each track offers its own musical flavor, "Hymn Of The Earth" spoke to me the strongest both rhythmically, instrumentally and narratively. An evocative song which transports you into his world, I was able to travel without moving, see without looking, and hear without listening. Organic and inorganic simultaneously, his folktronica flows through your mind in pure, liquid sound.

As his bow gallops upon the fiddle, it is easy to hear his film score capabilities. Just listening to his rich compositions sans imagery unfurls an epic film in your mind's eye. Evoking synesthesia, Nature Ganganbaigal blurs the boundaries of the senses causing the listener to hear color, feel smells, and see sound. He has not only achieved success with To Where Tengger Leads Me, but transcendence into a cosmic frequency of sound. Music that is not solely for entertainment, but for ascension to a higher plane. His spirituality is manifested through his music, a gateway from the earthly to the divine. Nature Ganganbaigal brings his voyagers on a sacred odyssey to discover their sonic bliss.

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Great Conversations: Joely Richardson

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I interviewed actress Joely Richardson on the patio of the Chateau Marmont in 2005. She had just wrapped her third season of F/X's "Nip/Tuck," which we discussed at length, among other things. What struck me at the time and has stayed with me since was how grounded she seemed, in spite of having literally grown up in the spotlight with famous parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles. Her work continues to stand out from the pack.


JOELY RICHARDSON BEATS AS THE HEART OF NIP/TUCK


Joely Richardson is a third generation actor. Grandparents Rachel Kempson and Michael Redgrave were one of the most glamorous and renowned couples of the English stage and screen. Mother Vanessa Redgrave is an internationally celebrated actress and Academy Award winner. Father Tony Richardson (who died of AIDS related illness in 1991) was the Academy Award winning director of Tom Jones (1963), as well as the seminal British "kitchen sink" dramas Look Back in Anger (1958), A Taste of Honey (1961), and The Loneliness of the Long Distance Runner (1962). In addition, Aunt Lynn Redgrave and uncle Corin Redgrave are celebrated performers, as is older sister Natasha Richardson.

Born Joely Kim Richardson in London January 9, 1965, she made her screen debut in dad's epic Charge of the Light Brigade in 1968, next to her big sister. A self-described tomboy as a child, Joely excelled in sports such as gymnastics and tennis, but soon found the acting bug in her DNA dictating where her true calling lay. After studying with the Royal Shakespeare Company, Joely made her feature film debut in David Hare's Wetherby (1965), playing the younger version of her mother's character, Jean Travers. An ethereal beauty who seems equally comfortable in comedy and drama, Joely went on to grace the screen in such diverse productions as Peter Greenaway's Drowning by Numbers (1988), Ken Russell's adaptation of D.H. Lawrence's Lady Chatterley (1993), James L. Brooks' I'll Do Anything (1994), Disney's 101 Dalmatians (1996), and the Mel Gibson epic The Patriot (2000), to name but a few.

2003 brought Joely to the small screen, with her twice-nominated Golden Globe turn in the hit F/X series Nip/Tuck. As Julia, the estranged wife of plastic surgeon extraordinaire Sean McNamara (Dylan Walsh), Joely shines once again, playing a strong, yet vulnerable woman, herself a gifted physician, whose self doubts start with the fact that she gave up a potentially brilliant career in medicine to be a full-time housewife. Nip/Tuck begins its third season in September.

Joely Richardson sat down over breakfast at The Chateau Marmont to discuss her latest acting turn, as well as her legacy as part of one of the world's great theatrical families. Here's what transpired:



Tell us about your first foray into episodic television with Nip/Tuck, and what's it's been like working with your mom.

Joely Richardson: It's been terrific, especially getting to work with my mom. We worked together once before, in a play in 2002, in London, and it was very interesting because I had no idea what it would be like. You know those times in life when you wait for the right moment for something to come along, and you wind up waiting for eternity? Well, we did this play, that I wasn't wild about frankly, and I was so nervous. I think the mother-daughter bond is too close a connection to be completely divorced from when you're working together. But I swear to God, we both were! It was just like she was another actress. It was a really, really good experience, and I got to see one of the things that mom does best, which is work on the stage. To actually be on the same floor as her, in that arena, it was really fascinating, because it's almost the time when she's most alive, and most present: when she's on the stage. And then when Nip/Tuck came along, the creator, Ryan Murphy, mentioned a few different actresses they were looking at to play my character's mother on the show. The next day I got a call from my real mother, saying that the job she'd signed on for had fallen through! So that gave me the idea: Ah ha! (laughs) But the experience of doing Nip/Tuck with mom has been very different: I've felt very protective of her, maybe because it's been taking place in my environment, or that she joined us after we'd already sort of formed a cohesive company. It was quite a strange dynamic. The third season has just been brilliant, and we're really having fun. There's one scene where we get to smoke a bong together. (laughs)

Nice!

She claims she never smoked one before, even though she was around in the 60s, and I never had before, so the props guy had to give us lessons! (laughs) It was quite funny. She was much better at it than I was. It was nice to do something light with her for a chance, since last season we were always shouting at each other. What I really find inspirational about my mom, is that she constantly remains a student, always open, always learning. That's what really stuck out in my mind. She's also a good company person, being part of the troupe, as it were.

That's not surprising since she was raised in a theatrical family, as you were.

She was certainly brought up in that environment, but in those days, parents weren't as hands-on as her generation or my generation. I think the children stayed at home with the nanny when mom and dad were off doing plays, or films. It was a little bit on an upstairs-downstairs existence. But if you are from that background, there is the sense of it being a team effort and everyone being happy is in everyone's best interest.

Let's talk about your character, Julia.

Julia's a funny one. I have such problems talking about her. I really enjoyed playing her, but sometimes I think that we only see one side of her, which has been primarily the unhappy housewife. When I was originally cast, Ryan told me that she was the heart of the piece, and I think what he meant by that was that Julia is the one who internalizes the emotions that the rest of the characters on the show feel: the anger, the joy, the pain, the disappointment. So, I've loved the lighter moments, also. The big, dramatic scenes have definitely been the heaviest I've ever played. That's one of the great things about television: you can really do very intricate themes that go on because you have so much time, whereas in film, you just get small glimpses of those things in a two hour time frame.



The portrait of the divorce between you and your husband on the show, played by Dylan Walsh, is probably the most realistic I've ever seen portrayed, either in film or television.

It's funny because for some reason a few of the men who work on the show had a similar reaction to that and there are just a gamut of emotions that you go through. It's such a nightmare. I'm glad in a way, (laughs) that you felt that way, though.

What else has episodic television been like for you?

I think in many ways, maybe not in America, but for Europeans, it's the best kept secret in terms of an actor's job, in regards to going into work every day and having some semblance of structure to your life. If there's such a thing as training, going back to the student thing we were talking about, it's really brilliant, because you spend so many hours in front of the camera, and you get so relaxed, but at the same time, you have to force yourself to stay sharp, and fresh, and excited and always come up with new approaches to the material. It sounds so ridiculous when you're an actor to say that it takes a lot of guts or nerve to hold it together, because a lot of people think that an actor's job must be so completely easy, but when the whole crew is waiting and you've got four pages of dialogue to remember, and if you blow it, everyone's just groaning, the pressure is just enormous! I don't know how public speakers do it. I would be an absolute disaster as a public speaker. (laughs) The one down side would be that you never know what you're signing up for in the beginning. You have no say what happens in the beginning when you sign up, and you're really in someone else's hands. That said, I think it really is the second golden age of television. I know that in every country right now there's this incredible boom of reality shows, but the drama and comedy shows that are on right now, especially on the cable channels, are really fantastic.

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Joely and Natasha Richardson flank their father, Tony, circa early '70s.

Let's talk about your background. First off, your father Tony Richardson is one of my heroes. He brought such realism and honesty to the entire canon of his work that he directed, that when you watch them today, they still feel contemporary in many ways.

It was nice because at the photo shoot for Venice a couple days ago at Greg Gorman's studio, Greg had shot some photos of my dad, and he gave me a couple of black and white prints. It's really lovely when people come up and pay you compliments all these years after he died. It's so lopsided in a way that my mom was so famous obviously, that people kind of forget about my dad, and as an artist, he was completely up there with her, if not more so. At the time, he was very much part of inventing of whole new era in film.

He really took a page from the Italian neo-realists and put it through his own filter. If you look at Tom Jones, there had never been a period piece shot like that: with handheld camera, natural light, and actors with no make up! Even 42 years later, it still has a rawness and an immediacy to it, like it could be a new film.

Yeah, I remember him telling stories about that, when he said "I really don't want anyone to wear makeup." And they'd say "Yes, yes, yes, but..." And he'd be like, "No. I really don't want makeup, and I don't want hairspray, either!" (laughs) It was really strange, because when I was growing up, being a teenager and all that, I saw some of my parents' work, probably more of my mom's, and it wasn't until after my father died that I went back and saw a lot of the films he'd made before I was born, or when I was very small. And that's when you want to ask all the questions, and of course, it's too late.

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Joely and Natasha with mom Vanessa Redgrave, circa mid-60s.

When you were growing up did you and your sister have a sense that you were perceived differently because your parents were both celebrities?

I think in a way we did. The ironic thing is, the older I got, I realized how universally across the board, we're all the same. And that's the great joke, that we all think we're so unique, when we're not. But certainly when I was younger, I think I did. I don't think I liked it. I hated being aware that I had to be careful in what I did and said. I was aware of the press, even though it wasn't like it is now. It was a different sort of responsibility for a child. It also made me very aware of people's projections on us because of who our parents were.

Your mom was a controversial figure in those days.

Yeah, but I meant on a more basic level. With friends saying "My mother said your mother did this, because it was in the paper." It wasn't on a political level, because I didn't have a sense of that, as a child. Even in my early teens, I really wasn't interested, probably because she was a single parent and we didn't have that family set up where we'd all get around the dinner table at night, so I didn't know about the politics. When you're a kid it's all about you, and your friends and interests. What your parents are up to is completely boring! Hence, why I didn't see my dad's films until after he was dead. It was interesting, though, that even at that young age, I had that gut reaction, the one that goes back to that old saying that we can criticize our parents or family members, but the minute anyone else does, watch out! It was like that. It was a real dichotomy to me. People's projections usually involved them imagining what my life was like, when the reality was so different. My mother gave away all of her money, which I really respect her for. She funded a little nursery school where we lived, and any big money she ever made was given away to schools, political causes, and so on. And this was a blessing, in retrospect, that we didn't have a privileged, silver spoon upbringing. And that perception was so far removed from reality. But if someone wants to believe something badly enough, there's little you can do to stop them.

When did you know that you were an actor?

You know, when I look back, or when I'm having a bad day at work now (laughs), I think 'My God, I've been doing this since I was five years old!' Maybe the first time I got a paycheck for acting, for about sixty pounds, in a little theater company, I had my first concept of being a professional actor. But prior to that, it was just always something that Natasha and I did, and was part of our lives: doing plays, and reading. It was everything I knew.

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Joely, aged 2, and Vanessa, 1967.

You were raised by your mother, right?

Yes, and actually when we'd visit dad on holiday, his life was a very different environment: he was always surrounded by actors and other filmmakers, journalists and musicians, whereas my mom was very private, and then it was just us and the television. (laughs) We were TV kids, part of that generation.

You came here, to Ojai, for boarding school as a teenager, right?

Yes. Dad moved over here and Natasha and I fell in love with American culture via the television. Now, looking back on it, maybe there was some deeper need to break away and get away from London. 14 is a pretty young age to decide that, consciously or unconsciously, I suppose.

Do you consider yourself an honorary Yank?

It's certainly been a big part of my life. Where we come from forms us, though, and I've never felt that I will shed that, no matter how much time I might spend some place. But is America a big part of my life? Yeah, absolutely.

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'Beyond the Mask' Is Adventure With a Message

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Movie Review - Jackie K Cooper
Beyond the Mask (Burns Family Studios)

Beyond the Mask is not your typical fait- based film. It has a Christian message, but it is deep inside this tale of a man who was a hired assassin for the East India Company back in pre-Revolutionary days. His awareness of his past misdeeds and his attempt to gain redemption make up the heart of the movie. This is a true swash-buckling saga without the usual gore, sex and profanity. It is exciting and thrilling, but still solid family entertainment.

William Reynolds (Andrew Cheney) has made a career of doing the bidding of Charles Kemp (John Rhys-Davis) the head of the powerful East India Company, but now he is ready to leave that life behind him. This doesn't sit well with Kemp and he sends people to kill Reynolds. They don't kill him, but they do severely wound him. He is discovered by Charlotte Holloway (Kara Killmer) and she and her family nurse him back to heath.

A later turn of events finds him in Philadelphia becoming a friend of Benjamin Franklin (Alan Madiane). He also becomes a bit of a legend as a masked highwayman. Still, his main purpose in life is to atone for his past sins and to be worthy of the love he has found with Charlotte.

Beyond the Mask has some good special effects and a plot that holds the audiences interest from the start. The scenes in which Reynolds fights off multi-people attacking him are a little far fetched. He seems to be able to convince them to come after him one by one rather than as a group. Also when they shoot at him they rarely hit anywhere near him so he manages to evade capture easily.

Rhys-Davies' Kemp is a perfect evil foil for the redeemed Reynolds. Rhys-Davies gets so into his role that he is chewing up the scenery vehemently. The rest of the cast appears totally subdued in comparison. Cheney is a handsome hero but never quite pulls of the strength of character Reynolds has to develop. Killmer has moments of fun and enjoyment towards the end of the movie, but overall is a pretty bland heroine.

The movie is rated PG for violence.

Beyond the Mask is a film you can take your entire family to see. It has enough action to keep everyone interested and a moral message that is more subtle than heavy handed.

I scored Beyond the Mask a family friendly 5 out of 10.

Jackie K Cooper
www.jackiekcooper.com 

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Wyclef Jean Says He Wants to Move to Sweden

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"Well I mean I love Sweden. I've been coming out here since 1999. I'm just waiting for that Swedish passport, baby. You dig?"

At this past weekend's Symposium Stockholm, writer, producer, and artist Wyclef Jean made his feelings for the Scandinavian country known during a panel he sat on with Andreas Carlsson and Peer Astrom--both extremely successful pop producers and songwriters--as well as Andrew Hampp, a Senior Correspondent at Billboard. There have been rumors for some time that Wyclef was going to leave both America and Haiti and retreat to Sweden, and the topic quickly came up as the four men spoke. But why?

"You know Swedish producers, the vibe of the writers. Man, it's just feel good music."

Ask anybody in the music industry where all the best talent comes from, and Sweden is the obvious answer. Some of the best-known pop hits and the most successful names (usually behind the scenes) of the past several decades are all from the country, which only has ten million people, but more than makes up for their smaller population with plenty of noise.

Wyclef has been busy for the past few years, both with his music career and some rather important other projects. A few years ago, he ran for president of Haiti, and when he was disqualified due to a technicality, he used his influence in his home country to help get another man elected. Coming back to music after that wasn't as difficult as one might think, according to the Grammy-winner, who offhand commented that "Running for president was hard. Like being a rockstar is easy."

As he gets back into music--some of which has recently been in collaboration with EDM DJ Avicii, who is one of the bigger stars to come from Sweden in a while--Jean might be spending more time in the country. When asked outright if he was planning on moving up north, Wyclef didn't bat an eye.

"Definitely. I'm usually out here so much anyway you know what I mean, it's only right. So we gonna figure that out. I hope that my label's listening. You know so we could work on that advance you know what I mean. Matter of fact, you don't gonna give it to me, just put it towards the crib in Sweden and I'm good."

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I Escaped Hasidic Judaism and Went From Living on the Streets to Being a Hollywood Actor

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In June 2008, exactly three years after I got married, I decided to get a divorce. I didn't fall out of love with my wife. In fact, I never fell in love with her in the first place. I simply no longer wanted to have the life I had with her and everyone surrounding her.

My wife was a Hasidic Jew, and when I married her, so was I. But that was no longer the case. I was a 22-year-old man with a long beard and side curls (payes) and all the other markings of a Hasid, but I was an atheist. An atheist surrounded by Orthodox Hasidic Jews. Surrounded by their certainty, their food, their self-righteousness and their minivans.

I hated all of it, so I left and entered a world full of uncertainty and a broad spectrum of ideas about right and wrong.

I had no idea what I was going to do. I had no education beyond Jewish Talmudic studies. I had no friends outside of the Hasidic world beyond a few I met at Footsteps, an organization that supports Orthodox Jews attempting to escape. I had no marketable skill beyond being able to charm your pants off. I had never been on a date. I had never heard of The Beatles. And I thought, "May the Force be with you" meant "May God be with you."

"For most of my life, I believed that all non-Jews hate us and want to kill us."





After leaving the Hasidic world, I spent seven years in various stages of decay. I slept in a tent in Bushwick for several months, lived in a rented Volkswagen Jetta for as long as my credit card limit allowed and crashed with friends. I starved in the harsh street of New York City. When I used my last subway fare to make my way to my sister's (one of eleven siblings) house for leftovers from Shabbat meals, she wouldn't let me in the house because I was wearing jeans.

When I went on dates, I had nothing in common with the women. I knew nothing about their culture, and they knew nothing about mine. I thought all shiksas were prostitutes, and they thought all Hasidim were landlords and diamond dealers.

Let me answer some revealing questions about Hasidic Judaism. Does it withhold a broad education from their children in order to keep the children narrow-minded and uneducated? Yes. Does it vilify the outside world in order to keep its members from joining it? Definitely. Does it have a fear and/or doomsday element to it? Of course. Is there ex-communication for those who dare to leave? Oh yeah.

I still have not received anything past a 5th grade education. In fact, since I never attended a regular school, I don't actually know what a 5th grade education is -- I just picked a grade that seemed right. I don't know what algebra is; I know I can Google it but I wasn't made to care enough to do so.

"After leaving the Hasidic world, I spent seven years in various stages of decay."





For most of my life, I believed that all non-Jews hate us and want to kill us. I believed that all goyim are murderers, rapists, degenerates and dirty second-class citizens. Of course, they/we aren't but I was taught that in order to make the secular lifestyle less appealing. I was told horrible things would happen to me in this world and the "next world" if I leave. I was told I would end up a criminal or drug addict. Many members of my family refuse to speak to me to this day.

I have had to transition both out of Hasidism and transition into mainstream culture. I have had to find a replacement for the void left by the lack of community and warmth. I had to replace my family, my friends and my moral compass. It was hard leaving everything behind but it was even harder to find something to replace it all with.

Thankfully, as an actor, my professional community is very friendly and inclusive (albeit competitive). I've replaced my biological family with actors and Footsteps members. I have managed to date, to have my heart broken, to have broken some hearts and to grow because of all of it.

I get asked all the time: "Are you happy now?" The answer is an unequivocal, "Yes!" I have friends who love me for who I am, for who I was and for who I am trying to become.

"I had to replace my family, my friends and my moral compass."





Career-wise, it seems I have sought the path of most resistance, deciding to work in a field full of multi-talented human specimens with high cheekbones and jaguar physiques. I'm five foot seven inches, unathletic and have a heavy Yiddish accent. And yet, I've been getting work. My latest film, "Felix and Meira," just beat David Cronenberg at the Toronto International Film Festival for "Best Canadian Feature Film," and I won "Best Actor" at the Torino Film Festival. Next, I will appear in a recurring role in the upcoming season of "Transparent" on Amazon Prime.

But those achievements pale in comparison to the responses I get from people within the Hasidic community who have snuck out to go see the film. They have been yearning to break away but have been told that if they do, they will end up in jail or in rehab, and they believed it. But now, they can counter that with success stories like mine and those of others like me.

The Hasidic community isn't what it used to be even five years ago. With the Internet, every person has access to every flavor of every forbidden fruit his or her heart desires, including my story. It won't be long before the Empire falls. It might not fall completely, but it certainly will be forced to adapt to the 21st century.

The Empire won't go down easy. The Empire will strike back. For evidence, watch the comments section below.

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The Jurassic Puppet Show

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Name the last great puppet show you saw.

And I'm not talking about Avenue Q or Hand to God or the various Muppet movies or anything else in which the idea of the puppet is as much a part of the joke as anything else.

No, I'm talking about an edge-of-the-seat puppet adventure that feels like a white-knuckle thrill ride.

Yeah, me neither.

Which is why I remain mystified by the generally positive reception accorded Jurassic World last week. I found it lackluster -- like a bloated rehash of the first film, minus the sense of amazement and despite the difference that 20-plus years means in the technology producing the images. The 70-percent-Fresh rating it received on Rotten Tomatoes included many half-hearted, hold-your-nose reviews that wound up in the Fresh column because the system offers no middle ground.

As I thought about why I felt less than fully engaged, it finally came to me:

The climactic scene features a battle between very large dinosaurs while the puny humans cower at the edge of the frame and, occasionally, in close-up.

Except that the dinosaurs are computer-generated fictions, without character or personality beyond whatever lazy stab the writers made at anthropomorphizing them as good or evil.

Here's the thing: I don't care about who wins in a battle to the death between two CG monsters.

This commentary continues on my website.

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I Am Confuzzled by Ms. Rachel Dolezal's Identity Crisis So I Asked My Kids for Help

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What does it mean to be Black versus African-American? I grappled with this question years ago; for no particular reason other than to have clarity within myself. It is shocking how antiquated and "off the mark" the Webster and Oxford dictionaries are in defining Black.
WEBSTER DICTIONARY
often capitalized : of or relating to any of various population groups having dark pigmentation of the skin (2) : of or relating to the African-American people or their culture black literature, a black college, black pride, black studies (3) : typical or representative of the most readily perceived characteristics of black culture, trying to sound black, tried to play blacker jazz
OXFORD DICTIONARY
(also Black)Of any human group having dark-colored skin, especially of African or Australian Aboriginalancestry:


2015-06-13-1434230546-1106244-racheldolezal.jpgIn a recent interview, Rachel Dolezal said that she identifies as Black, but does not call herself African-American. Yet, she also raises the question: "Didn't everyone's ancestors come from Africa?" The scientific answer of "yes" would give credence and allowance for her to recognize her African descent if she'd like - well, sort of, but not really...I am so confuzzled.

To me, Black has always been a feeling. In my very shallow and simplistic view, when someone is Black, no matter their complexion, they can relate to a struggle. This is not to suggest that all Blacks have experienced racism and discrimination (although most have at some point in their lives) but it is to say that at some point in your life as "Black," you know the feeling of being made aware that you are different than the majority or those in power. Black is a feeling of commonality with other Blacks, wherein someone on your family tree was plucked from his or her natural place to be subservient to another. For me, the Black feeling is not something I dwell on, but almost daily I am made aware of my African-American heritage, and for me that "awareness" is what makes me Black.

When my children were young, I never referred to people as Black or White. They grew up with other children whose parents believed that the Black and White labels were too complex to explain to a toddler who could readily see that people's faces were not the color of the black and white crayons in the crayola box. My daughters referred to people as the color they appeared: brown, tan and pink. I found it very difficult to explain, even as they grew up, why people of certain demographics were labeled Black, White, Red and Yellow, when they don't look black, white, red or yellow. It is very difficult to explain my "feeling" characteristic of Blackness to young kids who have experienced very little "struggle" as it relates to race (YET!). They know their history but they don't personally know the struggle.

Ah, a perfect segue into the complexity of the Rachel Dolezal identity crises. To help make sense of this nonsensical issue, I asked my daughters, ages 11 and 12, what they thought of Ms. Dolezal identifying herself as Black. (Often, children have an uncanny way of simplifying the most complex issues.) I read them numerous articles from credible sources and answered as many questions that I could regarding Ms. Dolezal's background, education, profession, family and current role as President of the Spokane Washington NAACP chapter.

Following are key points made during our 45 minute discussion. Disclaimer: At the onset, my eldest daughter was against Ms. Dolezal identifying as Black. Then I asked her to take into consideration her acceptance of Bruce Jenner, and all transgender people's right to identify as their gender of choice. As the conversation (which they led) evolved, their thoughts began to crystallize to form a few valid points.

  • My oldest daughter answered my first question with a question. 'Mom, I love me and I love being African-American but with everything Black people go through and the racism that exists, who would want to pretend to be Black?"

  • I don't have a problem with her identifying as Black, but I have an issue with her leading the NAACP.

  • The NAACP is about helping people who have been discriminated against and how can she personally relate if that hasn't been her experience.

  • It's not good to deny your race or heritage. It's disrespectful to your heritage.

  • What she did was on the shady side.

  • The thing about most Black people is that we can't deny our heritage because of how we look. As Blacks we are in an easily identifiable family.

  • When you look in someone's eyes when they or others are talking about American history or even World history, you can see sadness in the eyes of a Black person.

  • We had to fight for our Black pride, she shouldn't be able to join the march and try to lead the march, when it was not really her fight.

  • A Black person's history is what allows them to identity as Black, not their present day living situation.

  • Jenner can identify as a woman, but she shouldn't be able to lead a women's organization.

  • People have the right to identify as whatever the want, and I think we should respect that choice, but the truth is, them identifying as something doesn't make them what they want us to call them.

  • Identifying as something verbally or even physically doesn't erase your DNA.

  • She has a right to identify as Black but if she knew that one of the reasons she got her job was because she was Black, then that's not fair.



I agree with my daughters' main point that it was disingenuous for Ms. Dolezal to assume a position as NAACP Spokane Washington Branch President under false pretenses. The NAACP has released a statement noting, "One's racial identity is not a qualifying criteria or disqualifying standard for NAACP leadership," thus supporting Ms. Dolezal. That was a good public relations move. Now, its Ms. Dolezal's opportunity to make the responsive public relations move to the NAACP's gesture of support: Ms Dolezal should resign.

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Game of Thrones ep. 9 Review: Why Do We Assume Dragons Are Good?

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After last week's Game of Thrones episode, "Hardhome", I wrote here that we were basically tricked into seeing the White Walkers as villains, which they are probably not. Well, after episode 9, "Dance with Dragons", the opposite should be said about the dragons - we should not be fooled again into seeing them as good guys.

In George R. R. Martin's world dragons are mostly just weapons. Game-changing weapons at that. Think of an atomic bomb, think of drones flying through the skies or some super-advanced fighter jet. Or more relevant to the story: the introduction of gunpowder and cannons.

In stark contrast to the White Walkers, the dragons are not a race with its own agenda and interests, they're just wild and dangerous beasts with supernatural powers.

Throughout western history dragons were not only mythical creatures, but also a problem that should be resolved, a challenge to be overcome. They were always mean and they usually spent their time hiding in caves protecting their immense treasures. They had to be killed, and heroes dreamt of slaying dragons to gain universal and eternal fame.

The feat that queen Daenerys achieves is even greater than dragon-slaying: dragon-taming. Drogon heroically came by to save the day and she climbed on top of him and flew away. It must be said that this scene was very different in the books: Drogon was there to feast on a carcass and indiscriminately attacked everyone in his immediate vicinity and then even tried to burn and kill Daenerys, his own mother. She just came at him with a whip and forced herself on his back just as he took off to god knows where (actually, book readers know where).

There is a huge difference between a dragon that swoops in to save a beloved character and a dragon that tries to kill this very same beloved character, but let's put that aside for a minute.

As Drogon burned all of his mother's enemies it was clear how efficient he has become as a weapon. Basically, his only redeeming quality is his association with Daenerys, because if he would have been ridden by someone less noble than her, that would have been awful. Even though Daenerys is using her weapons of mass destruction to free slaves, since she can only ride the one, and there are two more, it begs to contemplate who would ride them.

Who will inherit her dragon when she dies? What would have happened had Joffrey had a dragon? The roll of the monarchy dice can always result in a mad king. But a mad king with a dragon is a clear and present danger to all human kind.

We can look to their history: these fire-spitting monsters were the weapon that allowed Aegon Targaryen, aka Aegon the Conqueror, to attack and conquer Westeros and establish a new nation: the united Seven Kingdoms.

To learn how Aegon Targaryen became the founding father of the Seven Kingdoms, watch this Game of Thrones Academy's video.


400 years earlier, the dragons changed the course of history in the continent of Essos, as a village of sheep herders discovered how to a tame dragons. The Valyrians built their empire by destroying, pillaging, enslaving and killing.

Drogon himself, prior to saving Daenerys, did kill a small child in season 4, which prompted his mom to realize that even though the dragons are very effective in times of war, they're extremely dangerous in times of peace.

So when the battle of fire and ice comes around in season 9 or book 7, we should maybe remind ourselves that fire is not better than ice, and that both dragons and White Walkers are monsters. We should also remind ourselves that people do monstrous things all the time, especially people who hold an exorbitant amount of power.

For all we know, the White Walkers could have just been hiding behind a wall for 8,000 years to protect themselves from the humans that live on the other side of it. These humans fight all the time and they did try to exterminate another non-human race: the Children of the Forest. Maybe the White Walkers are raising an army in anticipation of the inevitable attack by those humans who fly on top of dragons.

If I were living in Westeros and there was a war between the White Walkers and dragons, I would definitely wish luck to both sides and hope they kill as many of the other kind of monsters they possibly could.

Check out Gil Kidron's YouTube channel Game of Thrones Academy for a look at Game of Thrones through the lens of history

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Soaked in Bleach: The Mysterious Death of Kurt Cobain

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Kurt Cobain's raspy vocals seemed to bellow from the depths of some bottomless lamentful chasm. His music was sodden with a kind of relatable torment, and at times adorned with a beautiful mourning so honest and distinctive that it could never be replicated. But was the somber tone of his work a sign of inevitable self-destruction, or were there more sinister powers at play in the last days of his life, over two decades ago? Director Benjamin Statler's new docu-drama Soaked in Bleach suggests that there may have been foul play when it comes to the late Nirvana frontman's tragic demise, and that his wife, Courtney Love, may have been the orchestrator.



Told through reenactments and expert interviews, the film centers around Tom Grant, a private investigator hired by Love to find her missing husband, just days before his body was discovered at their home. It would be easy to dismiss the film as just a kooky conspiracy theory, but admittedly, some of the evidence is difficult to ignore.

I first heard of the murder theory with the release of Nick Broomfield's Kurt & Courtney documentary back in 1998. I was inclined to dismiss the idea, as these types of notions inevitably follow the death of a beloved icon; and as far as I knew, the name Kurt Cobain had been synonymous with depression and suicide for as long as I could remember. But the film left more than a lasting impression, and Soaked in Bleach is a suitable follow-up.





Like its predecessor, Statler's effort succeeds in showcasing a very disingenuous and manipulative Courtney Love, whose voracious thirst for fame found her married with child to the biggest rock star of her time, all in a span of under three years. The film's moody cinematography and informative expert interviews are woven together with actual telephone recordings of an exceedingly dodgy and evasive Love. The 90 minute piece is enough to leave you with an unsettling feeling in the pit of your stomach.

The June release comes fresh on the heels of Brett Morgen's Montage of Heck, an artistic, sometimes schizophrenic journey into the supposed heart and psyche of Kurt Cobain, that while moving and brilliantly assembled, does not address his death at all. Much to the bewilderment of fans like myself, it even leaves out key players like former Nirvana drummer Dave Grohl, whose endless feuds and law suits with Courtney Love were no secret, up until her awkward surprise hug at Nirvana's Rock Hall of Fame induction that left Grohl rubicund and confused.

When questioned in various interviews, Morgen becomes noticeably agitated and defensive in response to the missing footage, stating that Grohl just wasn't an intimate enough relation to Cobain, and that cutting in his interview after picture wrap disrupted his ability to "evaluate the heartbeat of the film."

It's hard to imagine how the inclusion of someone who rose to stardom with Cobain at such a young age, spent years touring with him in cramped vans and tour buses (it doesn't get more intimate that that), and even shared an apartment with the late singer/guitarist could ever be considered anything but important to his story. Morgen insists that Courtney, who has made something of a career out of suing virtually anyone who even uttered Cobain's name, gave him the keys to the vault with unrestricted access. With respect, one has to wonder why Morgen was so special.

But Soaked in Bleach is a different film all-together, and ripe with evidence that Kurt Cobain's death may truly have been arranged by a desperate wife threatened with divorce and amputation from a will worth millions. If nothing else, Statler's documentary, with the help of Tom Grant, establishes a formidable motive, difficult to discount.

The most alarming and damning of the film's evidence, for me, was the practice sheet allegedly found in Courtney Love's backpack by Rosemary Carol, Kurt and Courtney's attorney and Godmother to daughter, Frances Bean. The sheet contains various letter combinations virtually identical to Cobain's handwriting that, according to various forensic writing specialists in the film, could also be found in his suicide note, particularly the last four, most contended lines. If that doesn't make your jaw drop, nothing else will.

No matter what you believe the true story behind Kurt Cobain's death to be, viewers will be hard pressed to watch Soaked in Bleach, or Kurt & Courtney for that matter, without the overwhelming feeling that something just doesn't feel right about the whole damn thing. Even if you think Cobain has simply become the Elvis of Generation X, or was just another tragic icon destined to burn out far too soon, you'll find the information in these films to be a strikingly persuasive argument in giving the death of one of rock's most brilliant musicians another good, hard look.

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Game of Exes

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We know a thing or to about breakups, and a thing or two about Game Of Thrones. Put it together and you have the Game of Exes. After a breakup, a queen like oneself must protect her heart, or throne, with an iron fist. The Game of Exes can consist of bettering yourself and moving on, or smashing their stuff as justice for breaking your heart (I've heard metal bats do wonders for TVs and glass novelties). The intensity of the game is your call. Here is a brief look into the Game of Exes as told by Game of Thrones.

When people ask you about your ex

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When you run into them months later, and they're less attractive then you remember

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and whether it is, or is isn't, you pretend life is fabulous

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When they call or text you to "catch up"

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But you decide to be civil and hear what they have to say

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Only for it to be nothing but BS

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When you're at a get-together, and he shows up with his new bae

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and she tries to act like your new BFF

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So although the game is grueling

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and may make you want to lose your shit sometimes

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Just continue ruling with your classy iron fist and heart for future baes to come

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Movies for Stepdads on Father's Day: 11 Films with Positive Portrayals of Stepfathers

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Co-authored by Cole McNamara, co-founder of the teen movie review site Crixit, and Riley Roberts, Fanlala.com personality.
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Happy Father's Day, Stepdads! Let's face it, stepfathers don't get much credit. In fact, in cinema circles, they get a lot of resentment, hate and ridicule. Stepfathers in film are usually portrayed as the doofus, the villain, or a distraction to the mother. In our family, our stepdad is a pretty cool guy who takes care of us and cares for us - and is a really great cook! We're pretty sure that more stepfathers fall into this category. These men deserve movies that show them as the heroes...or at least a good guy who has a good relationship with the family he married into. Here are the best (if not the only) positive portrayals of stepfathers in film:

1. Big Mommas: Like Father Like Son (2011).
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In the third Big Momma film, FBI agent Malcolm Turner (Martin Lawrence) has been Trent's stepfather for more than a decade and the "step" really isn't relevant anymore: they're family. When Trent is in the wrong place at the wrong time during a sting, he gets pulled into Malcolm's operation and the two must go undercover together to get the bad guys. The storyline is outlandish, but the relationship is not. The two may be frustrated with each other from time to time, as is normal with family, but the two have a respect and love for one another. (PG-13, recommend for age 9+).

2. Journey 2: The Mysterious Island (2012).
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Hank (Dwayne Johnson) is a stepfather who realizes he has an opportunity to build a relationship with his trouble-finding stepson Sean (Josh Hutcherson). When the two decode a message that seems to be from Sean's missing grandfather, the duo team up for a trip to Palau. The trip and the subsequent Jules Verne-inspired adventure allows Sean to see that Hank will do everything in his power to help him and, more importantly, that he really cares about him, not just his mom. (PG, Age 7+)

3. Love Actually (2003).
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Among the hodgepodge of love stories told in this Christmasy film, the loveliest is that of Daniel (Liam Neeson) who becomes the sole caretaker of his stepson Sam after the death of his wife. Daniel is sensitive to the fact that Sam is grieving just as he is and when Sam finds a passion - a girl who sings in a band - Daniel gives him the love and support he needs to pursue this outlet for his young emotions. Watch with much older teens, though, because of a separate, hilarious and incredibly un-kid-friendly storyline about a couple who find love while working as stand-ins in the porn industry. (R, Age 16+).

4. Yours, Mine & Ours (2005).
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This family film may not be the most memorable of any of the actors' careers, but it does show a good, if not extreme, snapshot of strict vs. liberal parenting styles. Using comedy, the film approaches all the feelings kids and parents may have in blending a new family, while always making it clear that adjustments have to be made by all. It works because love is the foundation. Stepdads may relate to Dennis Quaid's Navy dad character who is tasked with trying to find middle ground with his new wife despite years of successful structured parenting. (Also check out the 1968 original starring Lucille Ball and Henry Fonda.) (Ages 5+.)

5. Air Bud: World Pup (2001).
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First, you can never go wrong with choosing an Air Bud movie with a young child. While the dog and the kids are always the main focus, World Pup takes place after Josh's mother remarries a good guy who loves the entire family. (Ages 4-10).

6. Aristocrats (1970).
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When Duchess meets alley cat Thomas O'Malley, she's a single mother to three kittens who've never known a father. Duchess is unaware that she will be the heir to her wealthy owner's fortune, but the long-serving butler does - endangering the cats and forcing them to go on the run. O'Malley looks out for the kids, teaching them all they need to know about life and how to survive outdoors. As the kittens look up to O'Malley as a father figure, he and Duchess fall in love. By movie's end, O'Malley becomes an official part of the family and treats the kittens as his own. (G, All ages.)

7. Freaky Friday (2003).
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This remake is all about the relationship between a mother and daughter, but unlike the 1976 original, it's also about welcoming a stepfather into the family. Anna (Lindsay Lohan) doesn't like the guy (Mark Harmon) who is about to marry into her family, but after switching bodies with her mom (Jamie Lee Curtis), she realizes that he would do everything for that family. (PG, Age 6+)

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8. The Brady Bunch Movie (1995).
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As this parody film points out, Mike and Carol's families blend ridiculously well. Mike Brady is the epitome of a positive stepfather, but this film satirizes the 1990s as much as the 1960s TV show so kids will need to be familiar with both to enjoy the experience. (PG-13, Age 11+).

9. Blended (2014).
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Adam Sandler is a widower with three girls and Drew Barrymore is a divorced mom of two boys. Both are well-intentioned and try hard, but neither one is crushing it. This comedy points out that sometimes having a parent of the same gender can be a real help. (PG-13, Age 11+).

10. The Big Cat (1949).
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Not exactly a stepfather relationship, but this classic captures the spirit of one. In 1933, in the midst of a drought, the Depression and a cougar that's been terrorizing a three-ranch community, Danny Turner shows up looking to work for Tom Eggers, his late mother's first love. Tom is ecstatic, seeing Danny as his opportunity to have a fatherly relationship. The two are respectful and bond over the woman they both loved while trying to survive and battle the elements. (Age 11+)

11. The Nativity Story (2006).
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Not sure this is a Father's Day movie, but Joseph is the ultimate stepdad. (PG, Ages 8+)

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Daddy's Home (2015).
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Scheduled for a Christmas release, Will Ferrell plays a newly married husband who loves his stepchildren and strives to be a wonderful stepdad. However, when their ne'er-do-well father comes around (Mark Wahlberg), life gets complicated and competitive.

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Lana Del Rey's Transcendent Concert At The Borgata In Atlantic City

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Originally published at Luna Luna Magazine.

The Borgata's Event Center in Atlantic City was of course the perfect venue for Lana Del Rey, whose dreamy casino queen aesthetic painted the place with a kitschy, vice-riddled glow. Dozens of young girls with floral crowns poured down the hallways, myself one of them, sort of half Coachella, half 1970s occult experience. The Borgata's endless slot machines and poker rooms sat just a tick from the Center, the blinking lights and energy manically pulsating as something ritual-like and mythical blossomed behind our closed doors.

As a Jersey native, I picked up on a certain kismet alliance between Atlantic City's Pine Barren mythicism (see the Jersey Devil) and Lana Del Rey's appreciation for Jersey. While she was born in New York, she had lived for sometime in the Garden State. As an oft-misunderstood state, it seemed apropos to LDR's oft-misunderstood art.This show didn't have an opener like the other Endless Summer Tour dates -- no Courtney Love, no Grimes -- but no one seemed to know that. A contact at the Borgata told me so, and I kept the secret to myself. At 8pm, Lana Del Rey would simply walk out from backstage as a girl draped in smoke to wave kindly at a sea of screaming tri-state fans. Unlike so many other performers, she came out exactly on-time. Refreshing, and not at all surprising.

Lana Del Rey's reputation has always been defined by the perception of decadent sadness and the interior (even if she wraps it up into a perfect package); she's never been known as a diva - and her kind, open and vulnerable interactions with her fans reveals that. Throughout the night, she'd wander down to the pit to interact with her fans. It didn't seem masturbatory, just open and loving.

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The stage show was simple. I had heard of days when she decorated the stage in palm trees and flowers, but for the Endless Summer Tour, her stage was centered between two art deco building facades, alight under a modest but beautiful light show. On either side of the stage were two massive 8MM-filtered displays, usually trained on Lana's face. Behind the band, a huge screen played bits from her videos. This screen merged the flesh and blood of LDR with the art she creates, with glimpses of Lana moving through the air on a tire screen hung from heaven in the Ride video or riding in the backseat of a convertible, cigarette between her lined lips, in West Coast.

While the stage -- and LDR herself -- intimated the very personal world LDR lets us into with her music, the authenticity was as clear as day. As a big LDR fan, I have never bought into the supposition of her facade. Some reviewers, critics and other fans have tried to reduce her to an idea; it's a waste of time. If you like her music, you know its timelessness and its beauty, and that should be enough. In reality, we're all made up of many characters (for lack of a better word). Sometimes we're happy. Sometimes we're said. Sometimes we're drawn to pain. I am sure LDR is the same way, which is the way of being human.

LDR and her band opened with Cruel World, the first track on Ultraviolence. She walked out in a short red dress and waved calmly. That she was happy to be there was not in question, but to not note her sadness would also be a lie. There was a hint of constant sorrow there, a sort of languid, oppressive heaviness that followed her around, even amidst the thousands of screaming fans (some only screamed along with the singles, others who stood gratefully lapping up the LDR experience). Sadness isn't cured by popularity or praise, and while we can't know for sure what LDR feels, when you're singing about regret and want and mortality, you're bound to project something dark. It's hard to be alive, and that's what comes across when LDR performs.

It was this earnest performance that was most memorable. She had her first record deal in 2007, so she's been playing to audiences for a while, but there's nothing showy about it. No excessively dramatic stage moves, no inane chatter. There's just a woman who is telling you her secrets. Sometimes she stands quite still, and other times she does a little dance, but there is something refreshing and beautiful about a person just being. Lucky for her, she is naturally enchanting.

LDR and her band played 14 songs, some from Ultraviolence, some from Born to Die, and a few other gems (like You Can Be The Boss). They also played Ride per audience request and Serial Killer, a song that isn't found on any of her albums. They performed the slower, more morose Chelsea Hotel #2 (my favorite cover) and the ever-sensual Do Right. Both songs, like tonal puzzle pieces, fit her set with ease. Thinking back to the SNL fiasco of yore, it seems ridiculous to think of LDR as a "bad singer." She is anything but. Her voice was robust, capable and heavenly, and the way she styled her own songs were unpredictable and of-the-moment. In a way, LDR is our generation's Jessica Rabbit. She may not dress like her contemporaries, but she oozes glamour and nudity in other ways: her stare, her vulnerability, her letting-go.

As Lana looked out to her fans' cult-like yet gentle love, I suspected that everyone at the Borgata would agree with me that being loved by millions isn't enough for her. It's not that she's ungrateful, but she seems deeply defined by something much bigger than her fame - despite her lyrics ("I want money, fame, glory"). It seems she is trying to channel something more otherworldly in order to find answers or peace; it happens that her fame allows us to watch her unravel that divine spool.

I left the show, which had no encore (that would not seem LDR's style; her bravado is in her art, not in gauche acts), with the feeling that I had seen a poetry reading. I wondered if LDR was sad, if she was happy. I wondered if I was sad or happy. There was a transcendent and sharp intimacy to it. There was the feeling that LDR and her fans were trying to understand their place in the world, if it even existed.

I'm not entirely sure LDR aimed for us to be part of that ritual with her (unlike Gaga's little monsters tribe or Swift's swifties), but she accepts our openness and reflects it back out to us. The show left you feeling not exceptionally charged or pushed around or tired, but reflective and curious and cracked open. In this age of pop culture idolatry, we are hungry for honesty, and LDR is just that.

Set list:


"Cruel World"
"Cola"
"Blue Jeans"
"West Coast"
"Born to Die"
"Ultraviolence"
"Summertime Sadness"
"Chelsea Hotel"
"Ride,' by audience request.
"Brooklyn Baby"
"You Can Be The Boss"
"Serial Killer"
"Video Games"
"Do Right"
"Off to the Races"

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Variety's Purpose

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Kirstin Wilder, Managing Editor, Variety


Q: What is the Purpose Summit about?
A: The Family Entertainment & Faith-Based Summit is dedicated to the growth of family entertainment and faith-based programming. It features leaders at studios, networks, digital media and brands who are succeeding in the family and faith-based entertainment space. Storytelling innovators also share what content is best connecting with today's audiences.

Q: Whose idea was it to start this?
A: It was the Variety team in conjunction with Rogers & Cowan who were brainstorming ways to work together. It wasn't a topic being addressed in the forefront of Hollywood and so we decided to change that. It is one of our consistently sold out events

Q: When people think of Hollywood, they don't usually think about films for the whole family. How are things changing in this regard?
A: As content distribution channels continue to proliferate, there is more and more content available for everyone. I think it is harder to parse through all the content to find the shows that fit an individual's critieria of "good content." I think TV and film have always had family friendly films available: think Walt Disney. I'm not sure we need thousands of choices, who has that kind of time to watch movies or TV? I just want to have quality, family-friendly projects to share with my kids that entertain as well as teach them the values I have in place for them.

Q: How many attendees are you expecting this year?
A: This is our 4th year for Purpose and we have 300 attendees which is a sellout at our venue the Four Seasons Beverly Hills at Los Angeles.

Q: What has been your role?
A: I have never shied away from proclaiming my faith and everyone at Variety knows I'm a Christian so I've always been the go-to church lady in the office. As managing editor of the newsroom, I'm able to add an editorial context to what is newsworthy when it comes to brainstorming our keynote speakers, deciding which panels to present and who should be invited to speak on the. Typically I'll moderate 1-2 panels on the day of the event. I'm very pleased that David Oyelowo agreed to be a keynote speaker this year, that was one of my ideas in our meetings early on.

Q: You are living out the values of this summit-you're from the Midwest. How did you end up in Hollywood?
A: Not sure you want to go down this path ... but I met a cute boy, got married and he wanted to move to LA, so we moved from Florida after stopping in Nebraska to get married. He left me after two years of marriage and we divorced three years after that. But I've stayed in Hollywood because of the job at Variety. I'm now happily married to a man I met at my church and we have two young daughters.

Q: Many perceive Hollywood to be an enemy of the values of the heartland. How do you feel about that? What kinds of changes would you like to see in Hollywood in the years ahead?
A: Hollywood is not the enemy. Hollywood is a powerful platform with incredible reach as well as responsibility to our society. I'd like to continue to see family-friendly films with positive messages perform well at the box office and in the ratings game so that Hollywood makes a concerted effort to continue making those projects. At the end of the day, it is all about the money.

Q: Do movies reflect the kinds of values you grew up around?
A: Certainly many of them do and those seem to be the films I'm drawn to most. However, I've learned a lot from watching movies that don't uphold those values. For me it is critical to watch all kinds of films to learn about the world around me and the people I don't come in contact with day to day.

Q: Why should somebody attend the Summit?
A: Someone should attend who wants to be able to take advantage of this growing entertainment genre - find out what types of content is breaking through, and learn more about the audiences that are attracted to faith-based and family programming.

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Game Of Thrones: Why the Show's Shocking Finale Death Is a Disaster

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Say it isn't so. Of all the deaths 'Game of Thrones' has inflicted on us since the show started, this one was the worst. Here's why. [WARNING: Major spoilers ahead!]

Game of Thrones fans are mad as hell and we aren't going to take it -- after a season full of twist, turns and terrifying deaths, the fifth season finale hit fans where it hurt with perhaps the most gut wrenching death yet. And if this one sticks, if this character truly met their ultimate end in the season finale, then the GoT creators have made a catastrophic mistake.

Jon Snow (Kit Harrington) should NOT have been killed off. When George R.R. Martin's fifth book, A Dance with Dragons, ends, Jon Snow has been stabbed and he's lying in the snow, bleeding and mortally wounded -- but he's not necessarily dead. As in dead, dead. After all, we've seen several key GoT characters appear to be lost causes in the books, only to have miraculously survived their apparent doom.

Jon Snow's Death On 'Game Of Thrones': Why Killing Him Off Is A Disaster

Tyrion almost drowns and is pulled from a river at the very last minute by Jorah Mormont. Catelyn Stark has her throat slashed and is thrown into a river, only to rise from the dead and have a second coming as Lady Stoneheart. Mance Rayder appears to have been burnt at the stake, but then magically is spirited away by the witch Melisandre. And then there's Daenerys, who should have been burned to death on a funeral pyre, and yet is reborn as the Mother of Dragons.

But having Jon Snow's actor, Kit Harrington, give an interview to Entertainment Weekly in which he says, "I'm dead. I'm not coming back next season," appears to have actually put a definitive nail in the Night Watch leader's coffin. Furthermore, Game of Thrones director David Nutter couldn't have been clearer on Jon Snow's fate when he was asked by Deadline, "So Jon Snow is truly dead now, correct?" Nutter replied: "Yes."

Well, if the Game of Thrones TV powers that be have truly killed off Jon forever, then they have made a mammoth mistake. Bottom line -- the series has to have enough characters left, that its devoted fans care about, so that they'll tune in for season 6. Game of Thrones has already whacked a troop of beloved and seemingly essential characters -- Ned Stark, Rob Stark, Shireen Baratheon, Ygritte, Mance Raydar, Oberyn Martell, Catelyn Stark and Khal Drogo. Oh, and should we also be mourning Sansa Stark and Theon Greyjoy, who may have just leapt to their suicidal deaths, and Myrcella Baratheon, who appears to have been poisoned by the vengeful Ellaria?!

'Game Of Thrones': Who's Left To Love On This Show?

Now, these are just the deaths of GoT characters that fans actually liked and were attached to. If you start adding up the characters who've bit the dust that everyone hated on -- Tywin Lannister, Lysa Arryn, Joffrey Lannister, Viserys Targaryen, Gregor Clegane AKA The Mountain, and Hizdahr zo Loraq, plus numerous others like Robert and Renly Baratheon, that fans didn't have time to develop strong feelings for -- GoT is a veritable killing field.

It's gotten to the point now with Jon Snow's death that there are very few faces anywhere in the Seven Kingdoms that we have left to root for. Yes, Peter Dinklage is a great actor and Tyrion is a fascinating and capable character, but he can't carry the show for at least two more seasons. Daenerys has been boring as hell all season and if she's already lost Drogon, she's rapidly losing dragons without even having crossed into Westeros.

No one else could possibly be fit to take the Iron Throne and to even comprehend the world-destroying danger of the White Walkers. Killing off Jon Snow doesn't just rob us of one of the smartest, most empathetic characters left in the series; it also gets rid of GoT's one remaining hunk, and you can't underestimate the power of hotness. Come on -- we have to have at least one handsome heartthrob prince to look at. What's the point of a fictional kingdom without a royal hunk?

Jon Snow Really Dead On 'GoT'? -- Bring Him Back!

Then, there's the mystery of Jon Snow's parentage, which hasn't yet been revealed and which could have made him a true contender for the Iron Throne himself. Isn't he the lovechild son of Rhaegar Targaryen and Lyanna Stark? That's a hugely popular fan theory which makes a huge amount of sense. But with parentage like that, it's a complete waste to kill off Snow when he has so much more opportunity for fascinating greatness.

Wouldn't it be far better to have Jon Snow eventually come face to face with his aunt, Daenerys, than to have finished him off with mutinous knife wounds in the snow? Think of the possibilities of their interactions, especially when Targaryens also have a history of marrying close relatives. Game of Thrones directors could be splitting hairs when they say Jon Snow is dead. Targaryens tend to revive after dying, like Daenerys, and Melisandre is at the Wall with her fiery magic.

Snow could also have transported into his wolf alter ego, Ghost; he did whisper Ghost's name as he lay "dying". But if he is truly and utterly gone for good, GoT directors may have finally jumped the shark, or the wolf, without Snow, a true hero. Westeros may now be too empty for fans to tune in. Let's all pray to the Red God, R'hllor, or Ned Stark's Old Gods of the Forest, that Jon Snow survives in some form -- otherwise his death is a disaster!

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Alec Baldwin and Laurie Metcalf in Arthur Miller's All My Sons at Guild Hall

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The first-rate revival of Arthur Miller's tragedy All My Sons at Guild Hall's John Drew Theater is a reason to celebrate theater out east. With a cast led by Alec Baldwin and Laurie Metcalf, under Stephen Hamilton's direction, the drama moves quickly through the moral dilemma of an American family post-World War II. The sons, one presumed dead, one alive, ask for accountability, a heavy load for Joe Keller -- that's Alec Baldwin, his baggy trousers skimming an ample belly held up by suspenders -- who is boss, businessman, and bully. When son Chris (Ryan Eggold) asks the big questions about his possible role in the deaths of 21 fighter pilots and the ruin of his partner's family, Joe defends himself. He's got a wife, Kate, submissive, damaged, but spiritual, performed by the formidable Metcalf, and a family to support, a good-enough reason to risk sending out faulty airplane parts from his factory -- and, in fact, to lie. To his sons, Chris and Larry, his ordinariness is crushing, tragic -- he was Father, better than this moral slide. They could accept no less in Miller's classic drama.

Much rests on Alec Baldwin's performance. While it takes a beat to get over that this is Alec Baldwin, he is a fine ensemble player, strutting and throwing his weight around, and attentive to everyone scene to scene. He had this kind of pivotal place in Orphans on Broadway a few seasons ago, allowing the actors Ben Foster and Tom Sturridge to shine. Joe's volatility with Kate, and with Chris, is powerhouse, but they give it back, as does Annie Deever (Caitlin McGee), Larry's one-time girl, now back for a visit with some revelations of her own.

The Kellers live in a fine house, Michael Carnahan's set showing an inventive inside staircase and an outside view on the porch, with trees in the front yard. Also noteworthy are Sebastian Paczynski's lighting and Amy Ritchings' costumes, especially when Annie returns home in a sundress that instantly shows the sophistication she's picked up in her move to New York City. David M. Brandenburg's original music and sound design is memorable, befitting a play that requires that characters "figure it out, if you want to live."

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Big Slick: Celebs gather in Kansas City to focus on family, charity this Father's Day weekend

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Back in 2010 I called two friends from my hometown of Overland Park, Kansas with an idea for a charity poker tournament. The friends were Paul Rudd and Jason Sudeikis, and the goal was to have fun with our family and friends while raising $50K or so for Children's Mercy Hospital. It took nine weeks to plan. I named the event Big Slick, and celebrated as year one exceeded expectations both in regard to total money raised and the generosity of all those involved - including friends like Will Ferrell, Adam McKay, George Wendt and Will Forte who flew in for the cause.

This weekend marks the 6th annual Big Slick Celebrity Weekend fundraiser. It's also Father's Day. And while the holiday overlap wasn't intentional, it beautifully highlights everything Big Slick has grown to be about over the past five years. The event has increased in size, awareness, donations and celebrity attendance, but it still remains all about family: those families impacted by childhood illness and seeking care from the incredible doctors and team at Children's Mercy; as well as my own family - and those of fellow co-hosts Paul Rudd, Jason Sudeikis, David Koechner and Eric Stonestreet - who volunteer countless hours to make Big Slick and the more than $2.2MM it's raised (a record $1MM in 2014) possible.

Throughout the months leading up to Big Slick, it really is a familial effort that makes it all happen. My sister Julie and brother-in-law Mark are on the organization board along with Paul's mother and sister, Jason's mom, David's sister, Eric's sister... not to mention volunteer committees full of countless childhood and college friends. It's an annual family reunion of sorts that keeps us connected to our roots, introduces new friends to a city that we love, rallies the entire region around charity and continually humbles and inspires us - all while having fun.

The fun of Big Slick weekend includes a variety of fundraising events ranging from celebrity vs. celebrity softball on the field at Royals' Kaufman Stadium to song and dance numbers and high-ticket auction items. However, the best part of the weekend is always away from the crowds. It's the hours spent in the halls at Children's Mercy. Those moments in the hospital are also what brings us, all the volunteers and our celebrity friends - most of whom have no personal connection to Kansas City or the Midwest - back to support Big Slick year after year. Once you meet the children and their parents, hear their stories, meet the nurses and staff... there's no denying that it's worth taking the weekend to help these individuals - even if it means being away from your own kids on Father's Day in order to support these fathers.

There's an incredible documentary called Inside Pediatrics that was filmed at Children's Mercy last year, narrated by Paul Rudd and including a glimpse of Big Slick weekend. Whether you're familiar with the Kansas City area or not, it's a moving look at the current work being done in child medicine and the challenges faced by our neighbors impacted by illness. It's what inspires me. This Father's Day or any day - whether in your hometown or current town - I encourage you to find what inspires you to act. Making a difference could start with something as simple as an idea and phone call. To learn more about Big Slick, visit BigSlickKC.org or Crowdrise.com/BigSlick.

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What Sherlock Holmes Can Teach Us About Problem Solving

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221B Baker Street can be a busy place. Sometimes a fat schoolmaster who just lost a Duke's son faints on the rug. Sherlock Holmes will show up for lunch toting a harpoon under his arm, fresh from spearing pig carcasses. The Prime Minister might drop by to report a crucial state document missing. And there was the time Moriarty's henchmen tried to burn the place down...

Whatever happens, anyone who reads Arthur Conan Doyle (or watches Robert Downey Jr. or Basil Rathbone or Benedict Cumberbatch or any of the dozens of filmic Sherlocks) knows this: day in and day out, Holmes and Dr John Watson always have problems to solve.

As a lifelong Sherlockian, I was pretty sure I knew how he did it. He wields almost super-human observational powers; your suntan can tell him where you've been. (As he says to Watson when they first meet: "You have been in Afghanistan, I perceive.") Sherlock Holmes simply sees what others do not.

But then I wrote a book, The Great Detective, to trace the Baker Street icon's whole history in popular culture, from 1887 to now. As I reread all 60 original stories by Arthur Conan Doyle, I realized that Holmes cracks problems with a method more accessible than I thought. In fact, you could call his approach the Seven-Step Solution.

1. Data, data, data.
The foundation of Sherlock Holmes's approach to problem is observable, discoverable fact. This sounds simple, but it's not: it's human nature to jump to conclusions before one knows anything. (Read any news site's comments threads -- or see how Conan Doyle's average Scotland Yard inspector arrests the first suspicious-seeming character he encounters.) Holmes refuses to bias his judgement before he discovers the facts of a case. In "A Scandal in Bohemia," he lays down the law: "Insensibly one begins to twist facts to suit theories, instead of theories to suit facts."

2. Don't just see -- observe!
In that same story, Holmes asks Watson how many steps lead up to their Baker Street flat. Watson, despite climbing the stairs hundreds of times, has no idea. Sherlock knows: there are seventeen.

3. Talk to people.
Again, this sounds simple. But to a striking degree, Conan Doyle's stories consist of pure dialogue -- they can run along for pages without any other kind of narration. And Sherlock Holmes listens to anyone -- he'll even disguise himself as an out-of-work horse groom to get the boys in the stables to open up.

4. Keep your head.
Holmes finds nothing more exciting than a case. (In fact, when he doesn't have one, he's apt to shoot cocaine to get his kicks.) But he can be amazingly -- annoyingly, even -- calm. In The Hound of the Baskervilles, the entire cast of characters, including Watson, goes cuckoo as strange howls and weird events raise the specter of a demon dog prowling lonely Dartmoor. Is it a blood-thirsty ghost? An ancient curse? Sherlock Holmes, alone, sits back and takes care of mundane, Investigation 101-type chores like checking all the potential suspects' past public records. Which, prosaically enough, solves the case.

5. Take the artist's approach.
Conan Doyle initially based his detective on his old medical-school professor, pioneering physician Joseph Bell. And he loved to dress up his stories with scientific trappings -- Holmes is forever bending over a test tube, proclaiming that he's about to discover a new way to detect bloodstains, or whatever. But when you examine the stories, you discover that science plays a minor role. Instead, Sherlock Holmes is an artist. (Conan Doyle came from a family of famed visual artists, and his father was a talented but frustrated painter.) On a case, Holmes wanders around, noticing odd things on the windowsill or drifting off into reveries about religion and philosophy. He dresses up in funny outfits, or goes to hang out in the local pub for gossip and fistfights. He takes long breaks to go to concerts or eat sandwiches. And whenever he can, Holmes delivers his findings not with a methodical report, but a performative flourish. He smashes a bust of Napoleon to reveal the stolen Black Pearl of the Borgias, or he hides a missing secret treaty in the breakfast dish. In a word, he has fun.

6. Sometimes, just chill out and think.
In "The Man With the Twisted Lip," Holmes and Watson confront a challenging missing-person case: a gentleman vanished from a locked room. It's a fun, atmospheric story, starting with a famous visit to a vile opium den and featuring an assortment of colorful, suspicious characters. But the key scene is just this: Sherlock Holmes makes himself a comfortable nest of pillows, lights his pipe, and thinks. And thinks. He sits thinking all night, without moving, until he hits upon the answer. Somehow, Conan Doyle makes this as interesting as any fight scene, and it's a distinctive Holmesian method. Be still. It'll come to you.

7. Don't just find the answer, find a solution.
Sherlock Holmes always seeks not just a result, but justice. When he entraps a first-time thief in "The Adventure of the Blue Carbuncle," he lets him go with a stern lecture, reasoning that if the man goes to prison, he'll be a criminal for life. (Besides, it's Christmas.) In "The Adventure of the Second Stain," Holmes covers up a crime that nearly starts a Europe-wide war because revealing it would ruin a marriage. The clues the Great Detective finds in his investigations lead him to action -- but he always insists on taking the right action. In the end, this -- as much as his all-seeing eye, his ironclad analytical powers and his taste for strong tobacco -- is what makes him not just a detective, but Sherlock Holmes.

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