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Red Rocks Turns Purple for Film on the Rocks

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It was less than 24 hours after the shock of The Purple One's untimely death that the Denver Film Society announced they would open the annual Film on the Rocks program two weeks early to honor Prince with a screening of Purple Rain. The brainchild of DFS's Kristin Nolan, the epic event meant not only arranging for the venue and the movie, but pulling together some of Denver's most talented musicians for the pre-show jam... in three weeks. More than 170 performers from a wide range of musical styles gathered, rehearsed, sound-checked and played tribute.

And. It. Was. Epic.

The Red Rocks Amphitheater became a lavender sea as fans and their families filled the seats, squeezing close together to accommodate the record-breaking FOTR crowd; a sell-out at 9000 within 24 hours. The party started appropriately when Andy Rok and the Real Deal took stage to with The Artist Formerly Known's party anthem, "Let's Go Crazy", as we waited for the dusk to descend. So much more than Prince cover bands, each of the thirteen groups offered an original rendition -- Flobots, Shady Elders, Ian Cooke Band with Kevin Johnson of The Bright Silence, Elin Palmer and members of Chimney Choir, Bluebook and more. Wheelchair Sports Camp brought the funk, others were spot on in style, spirit and soul; and some brought a more personal tack with their arrangements that, if not the immediate pop-song ear-worm, revealed the strength of Prince's music. The Heavy Heavies brought me to my feet, while jazz singer and KUVO hostess, Venus Cruz, brought me to my knees.

The evening turned toward the sacred when 115 members of the Denver Gay Men's Chorus took center stage for the grand finale; a splendid rendition of Queen's "Who Wants to Live Forever". Hearts were shaken and stirred. This heavenly choir stepped back, allowing the other 60 artists onstage for the title track of the evening, "Purple Rain". The stars were out, the house was standing, swaying, singing, and by the time we got to the ooo-ooo-ooo-oooo at the end of the song it was as if there was a great shaft of purple light and love beaming from Morrison, Colorado to the celestial sphere.

Moments later, the movie started to a roar from the sated crowd and just as I remembered -- Morris Day was campy, Apollonia was stunning, and Prince... my god he was a star.
Film on the Rocks opens its regular season on May 23rd with Grease and continues with summer favorites, The Big Lebowski and Ferris Bueller's Day Off, cinema greats, Citizen Cane, standouts like Deadpool and closing in September with Star Wars: The Force Awakens. July 27th brings another tribute to another fallen star with the 1986 David Bowie film, Labyrinth. Summer nights just got epic.

Photo credit: Jason DeWitt

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Tara Lipinski Celebrates Her Engagement to Fiance Todd Kapostasy

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Olympic sweetheart Tara Lipinski celebrated her engagement to fiancé Todd Kapostasy yesterday at Mr. C Beverly Hills. Wedding Paper Divas' Style Partner, and wedding planner to the stars, Mindy Weiss planned the bash, and Wedding Paper Divas hosted the fete. Lipinski said, "Due to our hectic work schedules, Todd and I aren't able to officially tie the knot until 2017 but we couldn't wait that long to celebrate. Having an engagement party was a great chance for our friends and family to get to know each other better and get excited for the big day. I had a blast collaborating with Wedding Paper Divas and my wedding planner Mindy Weiss on our engagement party."

Mindy and WPD teamed up to celebrate the bride and groom to be with a chic celebration - the space was filled with beautiful and elegant white and gold accents, personalized details like adorable cocktail napkins from WPD, trays from Shutterfly, and blossoming hydrangeas throughout.

Tara Lipinski and Todd Kapostasy's sports roots brought them together -- they first met when Olympic figure skating champion Tara handed sports producer Todd a Sports Emmy on stage. So Tara and Todd played a really sweet homage to their love story at their engagement celebration.

Their engagement party was custom for them but other couples can duplicate an equally special experience. WPD Style and Trend Expert Amber Harrison and Mindy Weiss gave tips on how to incorporating your love story into your event like Tara and Todd did:


The color theme. The couple chose white and gold as their central color theme. The gold was inspired by Tara's Olympic medal and Todd's Emmy. Choose a color you love or that means something to you.
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The invites. The gorgeous Wedding Paper Divas invites featured a painting that Todd commissioned of him proposing to Tara -- which was central to their proposal story. The image was also featured on some decorative acrylic trays by Shutterfly. Custom art is always special to commemorate a special event.
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The photo booth. Guests were treated to some specialty props at the photo booth, including an Olympic gold medal and an Emmy award (both fake, of course!). Adding an element of fun is great, especially for an engagement party that is more casual than the wedding will be.
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No signs of peach! Peach has been bad luck color for Tara since her competitive days, so Mindy and team steered clear of the hue in the decor. Knowing what you don't want is as important as knowing what you want, make a list of no's for your planners or hosts.

Tara Lipinski will not have peach at her wedding. #badluckcolor #wedding #taralipinski: https://areyousage.com/prediction/tara-lipinski-will-not-have-peach-at-her-wedding-badluckcolor-wedding-taralipinski-vwve

Sage



Keep it simple. If you have a great venue, accent what you have instead of going overboard with decor and taking away from the natural beauty of the space. Using white flowers in the elegant space highlighted the beauty of the Mr. C Beverly Hills space.
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Don't forget about the details. Personal touches and small details will make the most minimal decor come to life without breaking the bank such as Tara and Todd's custom trays from Shutterfly.
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Let your personalities shine. Use menu items, favors, photo booth props and more to get personal with your guests get into the spirit and celebrate your love.

Weiss said, "The lovebirds also used their menu to share their favorite treats with guests and reveal more details about themselves. They had a huge assortment of their favorite desserts - banana bread pudding for Tara and mint for Todd - as well as cake pops covered in edible glitter, warm chocolate chip cookies with milk served in shot glasses and a coveted coolhaus ice cream sandwich station."


Tara Lipinski will have either two dresses or a convertible dress like the one at her engagement party. #wedding #taralipinski #dancingdress: https://areyousage.com/prediction/tara-lipinski-will-have-either-two-dresses-or-a-convertible-dress-like-the-one-at-qwar

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Terroll & Nakita - Brain Freeze Challenge (Nakita)

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Brain Freeze Challenge - (Terroll)

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We literally couldn't stop laughing when we watched the likes of Casper Lee & his buddies do the 'Brain Freeze Challenge' so of course we thought we'd try it, well Terroll tried it, I just enjoyed laughing to myself at his expense..



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Billboard Music Awards 2016: The Weeknd Net Worth, Adele Net Worth and More

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By Laura Woods, Contributor

The music industry's biggest stars gathered at the T-Mobile Arena in Las Vegas on Sunday for the 2016 Billboard Music Awards. Everyone from power couple Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani to Kesha graced the stage for the annual event.

Here's a look at the big winners of the night.

Top Performers at the Billboard Music Awards 2016



The Billboard Music Awards were filled with incredible performances and inspiring wins. Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani shared an onstage duet, Madonna sang "Nothing Compares 2 U" in tribute to Prince and Kesha received a standing ovation amid her ongoing battle with Dr. Luke.

Celine Dion gave an emotional performance, her first following the death of her husband, René Angélil. Britney Spears opened the awards show in a racy outfit and iconic headset.

Billboard Music Awards 2016 Top Winners



Top Artist -- Adele Net Worth: $125 Million



In addition to winning the award for Top Artist, Adele won Top Female Artist and Top Selling Song for her album "25" and song "Hello." Adele's net worth is $125 million. She reportedly has signed a $130 million record deal with Sony -- the largest contract ever for a British musician.

Related: Adele's Net Worth and 3 Songs That Made Her a Millionaire

Top Male Artist -- Justin Bieber Net Worth: $200 Million



Justin Bieber is officially back, winning both Top Male Artist and Top Social Media Artist, thanks to his new album, "Purpose." His newest record sold more than a million copies within weeks of its release, reported CNBC. It includes hits like "Sorry," "Love Yourself" and "What Do You Mean?"

Justin Bieber's net worth is $200 million and counting. His Purpose tour -- which he's in the midst of -- has already earned $40 million, according to Billboard.

Top New Artist -- Fetty Wap Net Worth: $8 Million



Top New Artist Fetty Wap's self-titled inaugural album debuted at No. 1 on the Billboard 200 albums chart and has sold more than a million albums to date. Fetty Wap's net worth is $8 million.

Top Song Sales Artist -- The Weeknd Net Worth: $10 Million



The Weeknd was the biggest winner at the Billboard Music Awards, garnering a total of eight honors, including Top Song Sales Artist, Top R&B Song, Top Hot 100 Artist, Top Radio Songs Artist, Top Streaming Songs Artist, Top R&B Artist, Top R&B Album and Top Streaming Song (Audio).

His "Beauty Behind the Madness" album has sold more than three million copies, featuring hits like "The Hills" and "Can't Feel My Face." The Weeknd's net worth is $10 million.

Billboard Achievement Award -- Rihanna Net Worth: $160 Million



Rihanna was honored with the Billboard Chart Achievement Award, which was voted for by fans. Her latest album, "Anti," has sold more than two million copies and her single "Work" was certified triple platinum in April. Rihanna's net worth is $160 million.

Keep Reading: Bad Boy Family Reunion Tour Kicks Off in Brooklyn, N.Y.

Best and Worst Dressed at the 2016 Billboard Music Awards



All net worth figures are according to CelebrityNetWorth.com unless otherwise noted.

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'Why Are You Complaining? Some People Actually Feel That Way': A Critique of 'Me Before You'

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Why Excitement Over Me Before You Is Deeply Troubling



Warning: This post includes comprehensive spoilers for the book Me Before You, a book that deals with disability and assisted suicide. It also deals with sexual assault.

It has taken me months to get all the way through Jojo Moyes' 2012 novel Me Before You. This protracted reading can be explained by two things: I'm a PhD student and don't have a lot of free time for reading anything that isn't directly related to my studies and the fact that this book made me feel violently ill. I hated it, well before I got to the ending. The only reason I finished it is because the movie adaptation is coming out next month and I felt the need to thoroughly explain why it is so problematic and why I find the excitement over the movie adaptation so troubling.

I only became aware of the existence of this book after the trailer for the film adaptation began making the rounds of Facebook, always accompanied with captions like "I can't wait to see this" or "This is going to give you all the feels!!" Basically, all of these posts were coming from non-disabled people. The trailer (which gives away basically the entire plot) already troubled me (see below).



It's a film about disability and assisted suicide which is troubling enough but is made worse by the fact that it uses a non-disabled actor (Sam Claflin of the Hunger Games franchise) in the role of a quadriplegic. (To read more about how this is problematic, see what I've written about cripping up here, here, and here.)

Now I'm sure this casting decision was made because, after an exhaustive casting search, the producers could find no self-respecting quadriplegic actor willing to be associated with this bullshit and nothing whatsoever to do with the fact that they definitely didn't even look at quadriplegic actors *sarcasm*.


It's a film about disability and assisted suicide which is troubling enough but is made worse by the fact that it uses a non-disabled actor...


Before I get into my thoughts on the book, I want to deal with what I expect is the most common rebuttal to disabled people criticizing problematic media portrayals of disability, particularly around assisted dying.

A disabled person will identify problematic themes in the media portrayal and almost immediately upon voicing those concerns, someone will pop up and say "But, there are disabled people who actually feel that way, so who are you to criticize?"

Here's the thing: There is a big difference between actual human people having feelings about their actual lives and experiences of disability (which I'm not here to criticize) and a fictionalized account written by someone who isn't disabled and which heavily romanticizes very problematic stereotypes about disability (which I am absolutely here to criticize).

I am also here to criticize the fact that the non-disabled media heavily over-represents disability discourses that fit into ableist stereotypes, which makes it harder for the viewer to differentiate between the feelings of individuals and the experiences and feelings of all disabled people. So if you find yourself asking that question, also ask whether you are hearing other opinions and whether those opinions are coming from actual disabled people or are they the fictionalized imaginings of non-disabled people?

Me Before You falls into the latter category and is rife with deeply problematic themes which include:

  • The constant reinforcement of negative feelings towards the experience of disability from non-disabled characters with rare and problematic exceptions


  • What sort of negative life experiences from which someone can move on and live a good life


  • The constant juxtaposition of disability vs. non-disability


  • Horrible representations of disability and sexuality


  • What the outcomes after the death of the disabled character meant for the other characters


  • The impact of how fictionalized accounts of negative experiences of disability have on the disabled community



In brief, Me Before You tells the story of Louisa Clarke who is recently unemployed and whose family relies on her having an income. She takes a job of a companion to the wealthy Will Traynor who was paralyzed after being hit by a motorcycle. Unknown to Louisa, she has been hired primarily for suicide watch as Will's parents are concerned that he will make a second attempt at suicide. Also unknown to Louisa is that Will intends to seek physician assisted suicide after six months (his parents are aware of this and have agreed to assist him in going to where it can be legally acquired).

After Louisa eventually discovers Will's intentions, she decides to use the remainder of the six months convincing him to live. He, on the other hand, is both intent on dying but convincing Louisa that she is not living up to her full potential. During this period, they fall in love but, ultimately, Will decides to go through with his decision to die. He leaves money to Louisa so that she can be free of the financial insecurity which led her to work for him in the first place and live her life to the fullest.

When I was still in early stages of reading the book, two things struck me. First, the repeated disgust expressed by Louisa for assisting in the toileting needs of disabled people. I know it's something that many people would feel genuinely uncomfortable with, but it is reiterated so frequently in the first three chapters of the book as to leave the reader with the distinct impression that disabled people and their needs are disgusting.


...the non-disabled media heavily over-represents disability discourses that fit into ableist stereotypes...


The other thing that struck me and genuinely made me furious is that Will's mother does not tell Louisa that she is being hired for suicide watch. It is heavily implied and even if I didn't know the outcome of the novel before I started reading it, it is readily identifiable to the reader but not so much in a way that is clear to Louisa. This is really something a person needs to know -- not only to do their job effectively but also so that they can be aware that the person they work with might self-harm or commit suicide. This is for the benefit of the employee so that they can make an informed decision about whether or not they want to put themselves in a work environment that has the very real potential to be traumatic.

Instead, the fact that Louisa doesn't know just adds tension for the reader and the inevitable and completely avoidable drama that ensues when Louisa overhears Mrs. Traynor tell Will's sister about his intention to seek assisted suicide, which is when Louisa realizes not only why she's been hired but that Will is going to die regardless. Needless to say, she doesn't take it well.

Manufactured drama around something life and death with the potential to be harmful to the person who doesn't know and reasonably should, is deeply problematic. While someone shouldn't feel compelled to publicize their desire to seek assisted suicide or the fact that they attempted suicide when the former request was denied, there are people who do need to know -- not only to do their jobs properly but to protect themselves emotionally. The Traynors also hide this fact from Nathan, who take care of Will's personal and medical needs and this is presented as normal and acceptable.

When it comes to the book explaining why Will wants to die, he actually has very little to say on the matter beyond that it is his choice and that he can no longer find value in his existence as it does not match what he used to be able to do. He also (completely reasonably) chafes at the negative reactions he gets from other people which range from everyone thinking, they know how to treat his medical condition to just being generally uncomfortable in his presence.



Louisa (because let's be clear: this book is about her, not Will) is constantly confronted by people who reinforce the idea that it is better to be dead than disabled.


The main source of rationalization for why he should want to die actually comes from other people who are usually (with one exception of a guy on a message board) not disabled themselves going on about how if "they were like that, they'd want to die, too." Even Nathan, Will's care aide, says it.

Louisa (because let's be clear: this book is about her, not Will) is constantly confronted by people who reinforce the idea that it is better to be dead than disabled.

This trend of people being either just uncomfortable with or actively horrified by disability is almost universal. Generally, the best reactions will gets are paternalistic and pitying. Though admittedly, Louisa's parents' don't support him dying. Though that seems more a reaction to the effect his death will have on their daughter than him. Her mother compares Will to the only other disabled character in the book, Louisa's grandfather, who unlike Will is described as not having the ability to make decisions for himself. The comparison is weak.

There is only one character who treats Will like a human being from the beginning. She appears only briefly while Louisa and Will attend the wedding of his ex-girlfriend. The tokenism of her complete comfort with and acceptance of Will is so stark that I would classify her as a magical crip whisperer. It makes her seem extraordinary when in reality the otherwise totality of others' discomfort with him should feel contrived.

Sure, social discomfort with disability is widespread, but it's a bit unbelievable that in 2.5 years, you only interact with one person who isn't at least initially uncomfortable. Of course, the magical crip whisperer is a former politician who worked with disabled people, because who else is there to not be horrified when faced with a guy in a wheelchair?

Beyond Will, there are no other real disabled voices in the novel. Louisa's grandfather is primarily presented as loved but ultimately a burden. The only other time the reader hears from other disabled people is when Louisa seeks advice on a message board online. While most of those messages are described as being positive and defending the idea of living a valuable life with disability, they are not featured but merely mentioned. Instead Moyes chooses to feature a post from someone who agrees with Will. Ultimately the voices of alternative opinions are acknowledged but given little to no direct attention even though, it is suggested that there are more defenders of living with disability that people who want to die.


There is only one character who treats Will like a human being from the beginning.


Instead, Louisa uses the message board to get suggestions about how to cheer Will up and find accessible outing ideas. This is admirable but a lost opportunity to show that there are other disabled voices.

In the midst of Will's quest for death, the reader is also presented with trauma from Louisa's past. The book portrays her as underachieving and Will is constantly trying to get her to aspire to more. The book initially sets up that Louisa lives in the shadow of her sister who was was labeled the smart one from childhood and thus the one expected to succeed.

This, however, wasn't enough reason for Louisa to not feel good enough. Instead, Moyes decided that she needed a traumatic past to further reinforce it. So it is eventually revealed that several years ago Louisa was raped. (Minor break for feminist rant: Seriously, why do women have to be assaulted for character development? Particularly, when the book has already provided a violence free sibling rivalry and childhood socialization.) It is after this assault that Louisa stops aspiring to take risks and do things like travel.

This traumatic past also allows for Louisa to "overcome" the effects of her rape with Will's help including a scene blatantly ripping off Good Will Hunting where Will repeatedly tells Louisa that it isn't her fault.

It's bad enough that rape was used as character development, but it is made worse when it is clearly something Louisa is meant to get past with Will's assistance but Will isn't supposed to learn to live with being paralyzed. It clearly sets up the idea that people can and should be expected to come to terms with certain kinds of trauma but not others.

It also throws a wrench in the idea that the book puts a lot of importance on autonomous choice. The book only really cares about personal choice for Will but has no problem with Will, pushing, prodding and bullying Louisa out of her shell and making value judgements about how she lives her life from her choices in employment to her boyfriend. Even though Louisa by all accounts loved her job working in a cafe (the job she had prior to working with Will), it isn't good enough and is presented as evidence that she isn't living life to the fullest, which ultimately gives the impression that there can be no full life after disability.

This is repeatedly reinforced by both the stark difference between the physicality of Will and Louisa's boyfriend Patrick and how Will was before his accident. If people are going to continue to produce stories about people becoming disabled (whether they seek death or learn to live life happily with their disability), just once I'd like that person to be average. They never are though -- and Will Traynor is no different. He was active, played sports and was very athletic. This for some reason makes his paralysis more tragic as if he lost more and this is why he is unable to come to terms with being quadriplegic.

Then there is Patrick who is in peak physical shape. He's a personal trainer who's obsessed with running. It's as if he exists solely to be Will's opposite. He certainly has basically no other personality, other than to say offensive things about disabled people and have awkward passionless sex with Louisa and generally be an ass hole.

Which brings us to the representation of disability and sexuality. I was hoping, considering the cringeworthy sex Louisa was having with Patrick, that once she and Will fell in love there would at least be a good sex scene between the two of them (this is supposed to be a romance novel after all, I have expectations). This did not happen. Even though the sex between Luisa and Patrick is clearly meant to be seen as unfulfilling and there is one instance where the fact that disabled people have sex is acknowledged (though it's by Louisa defending Will's manhood).

As blogger Pretentious Best Friend puts it in their review of the film:

What I find more distressing, though, is how the film blatantly uses Will's disability as a shorthand for chastity fetishism. Twilight and Fifty Shades of Grey have popularized chastity fetishism by substituting sexual attraction with attraction to danger, which leads to problematic romanticism of physical and emotional abuse. Me Before You takes the opposite tactic, by making Will so nonthreatening that he can't even be conceived of as a sexual being. His relationship with Louisa has no chance of sexual culmination (at least according to the logic of the film), so Louisa is free of the usual pressures placed upon women in relationships and therefore can pursue Will without being concerned that she will be expected to consummate their love. This is exemplified by the fact that the film's most romantic scenes (and a few comic ones) are of Louisa acting as a caretaker, and that Louisa doesn't even bother to break up with her current monogamous boyfriend as she spends more and more time with Will. Again, I understand the appeal of a platonic, non-sexualized romance, but it cannot come at the expense of the dignity to either party of the relationship, and Will's portrayal deprives dignity to an entire class of disabled persons.


The book suggests the possibility of sex between Louisa and Will and even briefly addresses the ethical concerns of a relationship between a disabled person and their carer but nothing comes of it beyond a couple of kisses. When Louisa suggests moving their relationship in that direction Will vetoes the idea because,

I don't want you to be tied to me, to my hospital appointments, to the restrictions on my life. I don't want you to miss out on all the things someone else could give you. And, selfishly, I don't want you to look at me one day and feel even the tiniest bit of regret or pity that -- ... You have no idea how this would play out. You have no idea how you're going to feel even six months from now. And I don't want to look at you every day, to see you naked, to watch you wandering around the annex in your crazy dresses and not... not be able to do what I want with you. Oh, Clark, if you had any idea what I want to do to you right now. And I... I can't live with that knowledge. I can't. It's not who I am. I can't be the kind of man who just... accepts." (pp. 325-326)


He completely rejects that her feelings for him could be genuine and forgoes the possibility of a sexual encounter that he desires because it wouldn't be how it was before his accident, assuming that this could never be as good. It is again an example where only his opinion matters. While he can and should be allowed to decide whether or not he embarks on a sexual relationship, the fact that he uses the hypothetical of Louisa losing interest in the future rankles. He spends so much of the book demanding that his wishes be respected but refuses to even legitimize Louisa's feelings.

His refusal is portrayed as self sacrifice for her benefit.

Ultimately, his death at the end of the book is to her benefit as well. He leaves her money so that she can pursue the dreams he told her to have. His death is also the catalyst for his parents divorce, so his father can go off with his mistress.

In perhaps an attempt to show that there were consequences to his decision for those around him and that his choice was not simply ridding him of the burden of his care, his parents' divorce is rather minor. His family and Louisa are investigated for helping facilitate his death in Switzerland at Dignitas. While they are all ultimately found to be innocent, Will's mother resigns from her position as a magistrate as a result of the scandal. Also, in order to solidify the idea that the reader really is meant to dislike Patrick, Louisa's now ex-boyfriend, he sells her story to the press and subjects her to a great deal of media scrutiny.


Seriously, why do women have to be assaulted for character development?


Ultimately, Will's disability and death are used as stories of disability so often are in fiction as a catalyst for another character. His choice comes off as shallow even though it is heavily legitimized throughout the novel, because ultimately Will and everything about him really only serve to propel Louisa forward, to get her to realize that her life is in a rut, that she deserves more, she should strive for more, her life has more potential. A potential it wouldn't have if Will chose to live because she would be tied to him instead of pursuing more education or traveling to Paris, which her inheritance allows her to do.

This kind of media is harmful in ways that giving genuine legitimacy to the voices of disabled people isn't because if you listen to actual disabled people rather than using them as hypotheticals to defend stories like this, you get nuance even if they want to die, you hear about why. You might also hear from people who love their lives. However, while the existence of people "who really do feel like Will Traynor" are held up a red herrings, far to much of the media representation of those feelings is fictional but people seem to accept is as real.

As Dominick Evans says in his take on the book and film:

The disability community is sick of seeing films where disabled people are misrepresented. Part of this is because we are not included, anywhere. We were not consulted for the script. A wheelchair user did not write the script. Even the main actor is an able-bodied actor, which prevents him from knowing how accurate his acting, how harmful his portrayal, and how inauthentic the script really are. Without including the disabled voice, non-disabled Hollywood continues to make life harder for us, because this is all people see, and they assume it's true.


There is also a problem with how gleefully non-disabled people seem to adopt the idea that it is better to be dead than disabled, citing "the people who really feel that way" but rarely is ever actually engaging with those people and certainly never engaging with those who don't agree because let's be honest, they only bring up the former to silence the latter.

Australian YouTube series The Daily covered some of the issues of the proliferation of the idea that it is better to be dead than disabled here:



There is so much more wrong with stories like Me Before You than the fact that the disabled person wants to die and so critiquing this kind of media is far from a tactic to silence disabled people who may want to die.

I, however, can't help but feel that the tendency to jump on the "but some people do feel that way" when it doesn't come either from someone who does or at least with more nuance relating to the critique it's aimed at is just an expression of how people want to view disability, rather than a way to respect the fact that different disabled people perceive their lives in many ways.


** Me Before You quote taken from the Kindle Edition which I'm choosing not to link to

A version of this post originally appeared on Crippled Scholar.

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ReThink Review: Weiner -- A Sex Scandal By Any Other Name

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Most kids couldn't survive the embarrassment of growing up with a last name like Weiner and hope to emerge with their souls and spirits intact. At the same time, a lot of politicians couldn't expect to salvage their political careers if they were caught in an embarrassing sex scandal, especially one where the evidence included explicit photos and text messages that all the world could see. But Anthony Weiner was able to do both, becoming a popular democratic congressman who was later forced to resign after a mortifying digital-age scandal, only to bounce back two years later to make a serious run for mayor of New York city.

Anthony invited budding filmmaker and former staffer Josh Kriegman (and his partner Elyse Steinberg) to film his campaign, and the insanity that followed became the documentary Weiner, one of the best (and most cringeworthy) political documentaries ever made, particularly for the mindboggling fact that Anthony himself signed off on it. Watch the trailer for Weiner below.



In case you don't remember, Anthony Weiner is a former House representative of New York's 9th district whose star was on the rise for his fiery speech in 2010 denouncing republicans for refusing to fund healthcare for 9/11 first responders. But that came to an abrupt end in May of 2011 when he accidentally tweeted a photo of his underwear-sheathed boner to all of his Twitter followers. After many denials, this eventually led to the revelations that he'd been talking/typing dirty -- but never actually having sex with -- several women he'd met online, causing him to resign in shame a month later. This was made even worse by the fact that his wife, Huma Abedin, is not only one of Hillary Clinton's closest aides and confidantes, but was also pregnant with Anthony's first child.

But the makers of Weiner assume you already know this, and they pick up the story in 2013 with Anthony and Huma warily getting their marriage back on track as Anthony begins a campaign to become mayor of New York City. And with Anthony's operation picking up steam, his innate political skills, his record as a steadfast champion of the middle class, and America's love of redemptive comeback stories, he seems poised to pull it off. That is, until more of Anthony's sexting partners come forward, including ones who had communicated with him after he had resigned from congress, turning his once-promising campaign into the ultimate uphill clusterfuck and a cautionary lesson in crisis management.

Like most documentaries, Weiner won't blow you away with its cinematography or production value. But it's packed full of the most important currency documentaries can possess that scripted films can't provide: access. In fact, the directors of Weiner had so much access to Anthony, his family, and his campaign as one of the most embarrassing scandals in modern political history unfolds that viewers -- and even the filmmakers themselves -- are left wondering why Anthony allowed cameras in to document a campaign that could erupt in embarrassing revelations at any moment.

It's this question that makes Weiner about more than an unfortunately named politician with a sexting obsession. No matter how well-meaning and civic-minded a politician is, simply wanting to be a politician necessitates a certain amount of arrogance since the candidate is claiming that they are the most deserving of the power, responsibility, attention, and respect the position affords. Add to that the loss of privacy that comes with America's celebrity culture, the 24-hour cable news cycle, and political "journalism" too focused on scandals and personalities, and it becomes hard to imagine what kind of person would ever volunteer for such a job.

The answer, unfortunately, is that our political system may increasingly -- or even exclusively -- attract people like Anthony Weiner. With the media spotlight now unavoidable, maybe we'll only get politicians who crave it or can craft the mostly tightly controlled public personas. With people living more of their lives online and leaving a digital record wherever they go, maybe it will soon be normal for candidates to have embarrassing or explicit aspects of their personal lives exposed. Maybe there will be an increase in the number of cheating scandals as politicians increasingly use social media to seduce willing constituents.

Or maybe since politicians will be unable to keep their peccadillos secret, politicians will simply become more shameless -- or at least more clueless. How else would you describe someone who, having almost ended his marriage and political career by sexting with online randos, not only continued doing it, but put himself back in the public eye where his indiscretions were more likely to be revealed and could cause even more damage and embarrassment for his family, campaign staff, and anyone else who supported him? How could someone base his campaign on the claim that he was sorry for the pain he'd caused through his infidelity and had learned from his mistakes when his actions could prove that neither was true? And while I partially admire Anthony's fighting spirit for refusing to cancel his mayoral bid in the wake of the second scandal, it seems tone-deaf when considering how brazenly he had lied to voters and heartless for the pain it causes his wife, especially considering her high-profile career working for one of America's most public victims of infidelity.

And why would Anthony invite people to film all this? Anthony has his reasons, though few viewers (and probably Anthony himself) will believe it's worth immortalizing his most shameful moments on film and releasing it for public consumption. But in the meantime, his mistake is our gain because it's given us Weiner, a view of a comeback, a political campaign, and a marriage in crisis so intimate, insightful, and cringeworthy that its hard to believe that it even exists.


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Eric Anders Is a Singer-Songwriter for Iron & Wine Fans

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Relax into summer with the latest release from Eric Anders, a compellation CD called Big World Abide-not only the title of the track featured above, but also the perfect phrase to encompass four LP's-worth of music coalescing into Ander's latest cool creation.

Bringing back a sound singer-songwriters have mostly been missing since the 90's, when acts like Duncan Sheik and Dave Matthews Band ruled the airwaves, Big World is instantly tranquilizing. With a voice that has been called a combination of, "James Taylor's grounded poignancy with Jeff Buckley's complex ethereality," Anders' songs are sure to help you unwind. (It's worth purchasing the CD just to drift off to bed a little easier every night. Trust me. Just do it.)

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Anders considers himself a late bloomer in terms of recording his music, sighting the feeling of time passing too quickly for the reason he released his four solo LPs in just a matter of four years, from 2003 to 2006. Big World features tracks from all four albums.

Eric is most proud of his third full-length release, Tethered to the Ground. To record the album's cover of the Violent Femmes' song "Blister in the Sun," featured below, Anders presented the cover to the Femmes' frontman, Gordon Gano. The very different version won Gano's approval and he allowed Anders to release the cover with its altered lyrics. Music critic Mark Wilson called the cover "astounding," adding, "With some approved lyric tweaking, Anders' slowed-down, ethereal take turns the song from an '80s party anthem to a tale of romantic exhaustion and resignation."

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Once in a Lifetime: Michael Jackson, Madonna and Prince

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In the Beginning...

The waters flowing through the Great Lakes region were magical in the spring and summer of 1958, as the births of Prince, Madonna and Michael Jackson all occurred within a mere two months of each other. Prince Rogers Nelson was born June 7 in Minneapolis, Minnesota, followed by Madonna Louise Veronica Ciccone on August 16 in Detroit, Michigan, and Michael Joseph Jackson nearly two weeks later on August 29 in Gary, Indiana. Each of these musical innovators would become household names, putting their stamp on pop culture in their own, unique ways. While these artists' styles and work have been compared and contrasted for decades, what's often overlooked is the impact their formative years had on their young, developing minds, and ultimately their sense of self and worldview.

The precocious trifecta of future megastars grew up in devoutly religious households: Madonna's family was Roman Catholic; the Jacksons were members of the Jehovah's Witness faith; and Prince was raised as a Seventh-day Adventist. A foundational religious discipline would easily lend itself to the establishment of a strict and rigorous work ethic later in life. Each of these rising talents would have a pivotal childhood heartbreak, which forced them to grow up quickly and discover creative ways to cope with emotional trauma. At the age of 5, Madonna would lose her mother to breast cancer, never to regain the unconditional love and bond of a maternal figure. And at the age of 6, Michael Jackson would become the lead singer of the Jackson 5, forcing him out of the playground into the working world of show business. Prince's parents would separate and divorce before he was 10 years old, leaving his family broken and home life scattered.

All three entertainers had strained relationships with their fathers, which would inspire some of their future work: In Prince's movie, Purple Rain, we see his character grappling with a critical and abusive father and in Madonna's autobiographical single "Oh Father," she laments: "You can't hurt me now, I got away from you, I never thought I would."

Baby I'm a Star!

Budding stardom was recognized early on for these recording artists.

Michael Jackson stepped into entertainment at the age when most kids are making milestones in kindergarten. Led by his father/manager, Michael grew up on the road, in the studio and on the stage. "I am most comfortable on stage than any other place in the world," he shared in a 1980 interview on the TV program 20/20. Michael recorded his first album with the Jackson 5, Diana Ross Presents the Jackson 5, at the age of 11. Being a part of the Motown family at an impressionable age allowed Michael to learn from some of the greats -- backstage at the Apollo watching legendary James Brown and Jackie Wilson captivate audiences with their soulful singing and breathtaking choreography, and in the studio quizzing producers on how the recording process works. By the age of 20, Michael would produce 15 more studio albums with the Jackson 5, and later the Jacksons, developing and perfecting his vocal style, dance skills and songwriting abilities, before the release of his smash hit, solo album debut, Off the Wall, at the age of 21.

Prince taught himself to play the piano at age 7, the guitar at age 13, and the drums at age 14. And at 14 years old, Prince began performing throughout Minneapolis with a local band called Grand Central. Three years later, Prince would have a masterful dexterity of 27 musical instruments and create his first demo tape of songs that he wrote, produced, performed and arranged himself. This demo would lay the foundation for Prince's debut album, For You, released two months before his 20th birthday.

Madonna began studying dance at age 14. She was a stellar student, graduated high school, and continued her dance education at the University of Michigan Ann Arbor in 1976. After two years, Madonna moved to the Big Apple, where she studied for a short time with the Alvin Ailey dance troupe and worked as a professional dancer for two years. Madonna added singing to her artistic mix, and began performing as a singer and backup dancer. "I studied very hard on learning how to play guitar, and piano, and drums, everything, and then I started writing music, and I got my own band together, made a demo tape, took it around to the record companies and got my record deal," said Madonna in a 1983 radio interview with Paris DJ Stephen. Madonna released two disco club hit singles, "Everybody" and "Burning Up/Physical Attraction" before getting a recording contract to produce a full album. Five years after leaving Michigan for New York City, Madonna's self-titled debut album was released in July1983. She was 24 years old.

For all three rising solo artists from the Midwest, with their follow-up albums, they would skyrocket to global fame, define '80s pop culture, dominate the MTV music video landscape with their groundbreaking, uniquely stylized fusion of video storytelling through song and dance, break world records, color barriers and forever influence pop artists for generations to come.

With Michael Jackson's sophomore solo album, Thriller, he would enter the Guinness Book of World Records for the Greatest Selling Album of All Time (over 65 million copies sold). Michael would continue to break world records, receiving an additional 30 Guinness World Records, including Most Successful Entertainer of All Time. Madonna would receive the Guinness World Record for the Greatest Selling Female Recording Artist of All Time. Prince would be the only one of the three to receive an Oscar for Best Original Song Score for "Purple Rain." Prince would tie the record for 12 consecutive years with a Top 10 pop single on the Billboard 100 charts in the U.S. Globally, Prince has sold over 150 million albums, Madonna over 300 million and Michael over 750 million.

Working Day and Night

The artistic and creative gifts of Michael Jackson, Madonna and Prince are innate in their DNA: Michael's mother, Katherine, was a singer and pianist and his father, Joseph, was a guitarist with his own band, The Falcons, before he began to focus full throttle on developing the talent of his sons. Prince's mother, Mattie, was a jazz singer and his father, John, was a jazz pianist and songwriter with his own group, The Prince Rogers Nelson Trio. "Prince Rogers Nelson" was a stage name for John Nelson. Prince's late father said that he had named his son Prince because he wanted the artist to be a musician, like him. And, Madonna's mother, Madonna Louise Ciccone, was formerly a dancer.

However, the epic success of all three icons would have been impossible without a relentless work ethic and a drive for excellence. "Study the greats, and become greater!" was one of Michael's many mantras. R&B was an influence for these artists. Both Michael and Prince said that James Brown was one of their inspirations and exemplars -- from the command of his band, his trademark original sound, and legendary choreography. And Hitsville U.S.A. struck a major chord with the Material Girl. "Motown is a really big influence with me 'cause I grew up in Detroit, and I listened to all those old, Motown groups," said Madonna in a 1983 interview with DJ Stephen on Radio Show.

NBA great Kobe Bryant discussed Michael Jackson's work ethic in a 2016 Jimmy Kimmel Live interview: "He showed me how he composed songs, how he structured them, how he trained, who inspired him...He walked me step by step through things that he learned from [his influences] and how it made him a better entertainer. How he studied the Beatles, how he broke down every single note and felt like there was a certain emotional connection with each chord. It was just fascinating stuff. I thought I was working hard until I met him."

In a 2016 ew.com interview, hit-making producer Jimmy Jam shared the following about Prince's work ethic: "... He out-talented everyone by so much. In sports, it'd be like Michael Jordan. He walks into the gym and he's the most talented player; that's how Prince was. He walked in and he was more talented than everybody...He'd come to rehearsal, work with us, go work with his band, then he'd go to his studio all night and record. The next night he'd come to rehearsal with a tape in his hand and he'd say, 'This is what I did last night!' and it'd be something like '1999.'"

And celeb trainer Nicole Winhoffer told eoline.com in 2014: "Madonna stands as an icon. Her body, work ethic, and persistence is an inspiration to the people."

Express Yourself

"It's my own style. Unique and original. You won't see it anywhere else."
--Madonna, Paris interview with DJ Stephen on Radio Show (1983)


"I strive for originality in my work. And, hopefully it will be perceived that way."

--Prince, first television interview on MTV (1985)

"My attitude is if fashion says it's forbidden, I'm going to do it. In many ways an artist is his work, it's difficult to separate the two. I think I can be brutally objective about my work as I create it, and if something doesn't work, I can feel it, but when I turn in a finished album - or song - you can be sure that I've given it every ounce of energy and God-given talent that I have."
--Michael Jackson, the autobiography, Moonwalk (1988)


The greatest gift that Madonna, Prince and Michael Jackson have given to the world is their unique, artistic voice. Their collective ability to masterfully blend music, dance, live performance, music videos, film and fashion to create artistic expressions that resonated across generations and countries is unparalleled. Their influence on our culture is multi-dimensional, transformative and everlasting. The world before Madonna, Prince and Michael was one in which we'd watch artists sing and perform, and we might sing along to their music. When Madonna, Prince and Michael each had their meteoric rise in the '80s -- and declared they were originals, were going to push boundaries, yet also perform with a level of creativity and innovation never before seen -- they created a deeper level of engagement with their audience and the public. In addition to singing their songs, we began to emulate their dance moves and sartorial tastes. Their appeal was contagious, enchanting, universal and international: black, white, young, old, straight or gay, it was a cultural revolution, unlike any other:

* Madonna had young girls around the world wearing rubber bracelets, lots of lace, and big hair bows. Michael Jackson created a new look: a signature red leather jacket with black trim -- the Thriller jacket -- which sold internationally. And, how can we forget that purple became the most popular color on the planet, when Prince's movie, Purple Rain, was released.

* Everyone wanted to perform the Moonwalk, seamlessly and flawlessly, just like Michael Jackson. Who didn't attempt to do a full split and spin, after watching Prince do it in Purple Rain? Madonna introduced a formerly underground dance style performed at house balls for a mostly gay community, vogueing, to the mainstream.

Madonna, Prince and Michael will always be known as trendsetters and tastemakers. Yet, their bodies of work also move people's spirits and emotions. Emanating from their creative expression are themes of freedom, rebellion, acceptance, inclusion, peace, joy, fun and romance. In their music and videos, they also tackle controversial topics such as race, religion, politics and sexuality.

Most of all, we find Madonna, Prince, and Michael likable and relatable, because we see and embrace their humanity, complexities and eccentricities. All three of them are cultural misfits, who never quite fit in, but somehow rose to the top and stayed there. They are our American heroes, the underdogs from Midwestern, working-class families who succeeded, against all odds. Prince was the short guy from Minneapolis who embraced androgyny and, despite his stature, was larger than life. In reality, Michael Jackson was shy, alone, and kept to himself. On stage, Michael Jackson was a breathtaking force -- dynamic and otherworldly. Two distinctly different personas -- offstage and onstage -- within the same man. Madonna fought disappointment and loss from her youth with rebellion. She pushed her past aside, moved forward, always robustly, with a propensity for head-turning, over-the-top attire and behavior. In the imperfect, there lies perfection.

Gone Too Soon

With the recent loss of Prince, it is hard to imagine that, like Michael Jackson, the new music will be coming from a vault. There will be no more live performances, cameo appearances, philanthropic projects or political statements to be made. That untouchable trifecta of musical titans from the Midwest were all supposed to live forever, if only to continue the soundtrack for an aging Generation X, much like how baby boomers still have the Rolling Stones. While the legacies of Prince and Michael will be timeless, up-and-coming artists will look to them for inspiration; the Purple One and the King of Pop are the ascended masters and reference points. The pain will linger in knowing that the creative environment that allowed these legends to flourish has vanished.

The industry has changed along with the way music is produced. Songs aren't as rich as they used to be. Instruments have been overpowered by synthesizers, samples and beats. Auto-Tune has replaced raw vocals in the studio. New and emerging artists don't have the freedom or flexibility to be daring and different. There is a marketing and promotional formula that must be followed -- people aren't even buying music like in previous decades, so budgets have dwindled for things like artist development. What will the next generation of pop artists look like? Will the pipeline to a recording contract be dominated by reality TV competitions? Could a young artist, who can play over two dozen musical instruments even fathom getting a record deal or complete creative control?

We can never deny that in their heyday Prince, Michael and Madonna, now the surviving member of the trifecta, shoved the envelope and set the bar for trend-setting music makers who came after them. Many may not appreciate or comprehend Madonna's impact today, but that can't diminish her influence. What's next for the queen of reinvention? Whatever is on the horizon, like a prayer, she might just take us there.

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Of Gladiators and Bachelorettes

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When I was in college, I went with my family on a vacation to Italy and received the standard tourist introduction to Ancient Rome, including the Coliseum. That crumbling building made quite an impression on me, largely because the movie Gladiator had just come out earlier that year. I tried to imagine the gladiators waiting in the dark inner recesses, anticipating what would very likely be an agonizing and humiliating public death. I thought about the emperor, drunk with power and popularity, basking in his ability to rally the crowd as he decided the fate of human beings. Worst of all, I imagined the crowd filling the amphitheater with cheers and boos The whole thing made me feel sick and fascinated. At one point this sort of thing was acceptable and even considered a fun outing? "Hey honey, if you've got the evening off maybe we could take the kids to see that guy fight the bears in the Coliseum - it's supposed to be really good."

Of all the pieces in this gruesome puzzle, I learned that the crowd was the hub of the wheel. Yes the emperor was the one who directly decided the fate of each gladiator but without the crowd, he would have had nothing to gain. No glory, no popularity, no frenzied rush of excitement. It was the crowd that fed the ego that killed the gladiator, all under the guise of entertainment. Those ancient Romans knew how to make good TV.

Which brings me to The Bachelor. Hi my name is Sarah and I love The Bachelor. For years, this show has been one of my social outlets - I have friends over, crack open a bottle of wine, dig into the dark chocolate, and wax philosophical about how TOTALLY CRAZY that one girl has been acting for the last three episodes. It's a show about love and what woman doesn't love love? Except I have come to see (shamefully in very recent days) that this is not a show about love at all. It is all about drama. More specifically, it is about dangling the heart's desire of 30 women in front of their faces, raising their hopes over the course of days or weeks, and then smashing it to smithereens publicly in front of rolling cameras. This show does not advertise smooth and successful courtships. It advertises tears. And though there are no doubt many parts of this show that are completely fabricated, those tears are the real deal. And we, the crowd, eat 'em up.

I am a counselor by trade, which means that I make my living doing my best to understand the inner workings of the human mind and heart. And there are a few ways in which (in my humble but professional opinion) the women on The Bachelor are set up for emotional injury. For one thing, they are put into a stressful environment (competing with 29 other gorgeous women for a date with one man in front of TV cameras... come on) with alcohol readily available. Stress and the accompanying release of cortisol (a stress hormone produced by the body) place a person in an emotionally vulnerable position that is only exacerbated by the use of alcohol. Then, to up the ante in the stress department, many of the dates that the women go on involve downright scary activities. Some examples from episodes I have watched include bungee jumping, repelling off of a skyscraper, performing in front of an audience, participating in a fake wedding, and driving race cars on a race track... to name just a few. Now we take these women from this emotionally vulnerable place, put them in front of an attractive man, and tell them that they must "open up" in order for the whole process to work. The result? Tales of abusive relationships, deaths of parents and spouses, surprise pregnancies, personal and professional disappointments, and all manner of life traumas are shared with a virtual stranger and millions of TV viewers. And those who resist these hasty personal disclosures are chided for not being open and thereby not allowing their relationship to advance.

In the process, a sense of intimacy is created that totally should exist in the context of a safe, monogamous relationship. Sadly, the relationships on The Bachelor are decidedly unsafe (you have a 29 out of 30 chance of being sent home heartbroken - not great odds) and un-monogamous (just count the number of mouths that guy's tongue explores - it's usually a lot). And speaking of tongues, don't even get me started on the physical side of these relationships. Though each season differs, the kissing generally begins within the first couple of weeks. Physical intimacy escalates from there until the end of the season, when contestants are invited to spend the night with the bachelor in The Fantasy Suite. The audience is never told exactly what goes on in the Fantasy Suite but we can use our imagination and conclude that the physical relationships have gotten pretty serious by that point. Biochemically, we can now add oxytocin to the mix - a compound produced by the body during physical contact that creates feelings of connection. And finish off the cocktail with a dash of dopamine - a neurotransmitter that acts on the reward center of our brains during periods of pleasure. What are we left with after all of this? A group of stressed out and vulnerable women, feeling intimately connected to and excited by an emotionally detached man who is dating 29 other women and will, in all likelihood, publicly dump them within the next 6 weeks. Ladies and gentlemen, we have a setup for emotional bloodshed and the emperor is rubbing his hands together in anticipation.

But let's put the emperor aside for a moment. We've already established that he is not the root of this problem. He derives his power from the crowd without whom he would have nothing to gain from his sick game. Let's talk instead about the crowd. That means the viewers, ya'll. And lest you think that I am trying to heap shame upon the heads of Bachelor fans, please remember that the author of this article is the former Mayor of Bachelor Nation. Perspective, not shame, is my goal. I believe that we the viewers, the members of the crowd, need a new perspective on this show. We are not witnessing lighthearted hijinks on The Bachelor. We are watching (and applauding) deep emotional wounding. Never mind that these women signed releases before going on the show. Releases mean everything in the realm of law and nothing in the realm of morality. A contract may allow a person to be treated injuriously without the right to legal recourse. But the contract never ever nullifies the injury. The wounding is unchanged by a signature on a release. We viewers cannot fall back on the argument that "they brought this on themselves." Make no mistake, we brought it on them by publicly exploiting, sensationalizing, and mocking their wounds. Those women are duking it out in the arena while we laugh with our buddies and sip our wine.

I think it's safe to say that most of us look back on gladiator battles with horror, wondering how anyone could applaud such violence and brutality. But we humans aren't particularly creative. Our violence has become only slightly more subtle. Spilling blood represents a more concrete injury than does streaming tears but both represent an injury, sometimes of critical proportion. And that is exactly why we watch. Not for the love, but for the bloodshed. And are we not entertained? We viewers feed the egos/pocketbooks that break those women's hearts. It's time to wake up and recognize our bloodlust for what it is. I, for one, will choose to no longer follow the crowd on Monday nights. I'll take my wine without a side of shattered dreams, thank you very much.

Wanna hear more from Sarah? On Twitter, you can follow me as @MuchHaikuAbtNothing. Please excuse the tweets about The Bachelor. That's in my past.

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The World Has a Plan for Global Girls and Women

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The year 2016 marks the world's 4th Women Deliver Conference, and almost a year since the announcement of the Sustainable Development Goals -- Global Goals with the potential to make us the first generation to end extreme poverty, the last generation threatened by climate change, and the most determined to end injustice and inequality. But these Goals will only ever be achieved if governments, businesses and communities invest in girls and women.



This year also marks more than 100 years since women were allowed the right to vote and go to university in many countries (though in Saudi Arabia, they were only given this right in December 2015), more than 50 years since women were allowed more freedom over their bodies with access to the contraceptive pill, and 42 years since Isabel Peron became the world's first female president.



Huge progress has been made since I was a little boy when it comes to the rights of girls and women, but the reality is that there is no country in the world today where women and men are truly equal. Even in the most advanced countries in the world, unequal pay, legal and workplace discrimination, violence and sexism is staggering. And to make it worse, the media and advertising industries globally continue to often objectify girls and women in a way that perpetuates this unbalance.



I've got a young brilliant daughter, 20, years old -- and she's a constant argumentative reminder to me about quite how embedded sexism and inequality are in our world. She's funny about it -- she's intelligent about it -- she knows it's a complex issue. But she knows for damn sure it's there -- and looking at the world through her clever eyes I see it around me every day.



The good news is that we can all do something to change this, and fight for a fantastic 15 years to implement the Global Goals fully. By 2030, we can ensure that no girl or woman will have to suffer sex-based violence in her lifetime, that no woman will lack access to reproductive and maternal health and that every girl will have a full education and access to sanitation.



My team and I at Project Everyone are working with the UN and excellent charity partners internationally to incite particular action for girls and women specifically, because Goals that work for girls will work for the world. I am a big believer in the notion that, in order to make things happen, you must make things. Below is one of the things we've made to support this movement:





At Women Deliver this year -- the largest meeting of world leaders, policymakers and activists to fight for the health, rights and well-being of girls and women in more than a decade -- I call on you to ask yourself what you can make, and what action you can take for girls and women in your community.



Whether you're a world leader who can increase investment in girls, a business that can change your equal pay policies or a person who can directly lobby your government decision-maker to change an unequal law -- now is the time to act and invest in girls and women.



In 15 years, I can't wait for my grand-kids to grow up in a world where inequality is a thing of the past. I want my daughter to seem like a fuddy-duddy with a bee in her bonnet -- not what she is now, an important teller of truth to me and my generation. Investing in the Global Goals for girls can make that a reality -- which is why Scarlett is fighting so hard for them alongside me. We have to work so hard to make sure as we move forward no girl or woman is left behind. Zero tolerance. True equality. Right now.



This post is part of a series produced by The Huffington Post and the SDGs Advocates, in conjunction with United Nations. The SDG Advocates are 17 influencers from various walks of life committed to ending poverty, and tackling climate change to make the SDGs a reality for everyone. For more information about the SDG Advocates, here.

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Are There Really Aliens Hidden in Every Episode of South Park?

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The very first episode of Trey Parker and Matt Stone's television series, South Park, debuted on August 13, 1997 (this series followed two short films by Parker and Stone, both titled "The Spirit of Christmas," that they made in 1992 and 1995. The latter one was made into a Christmas video card, of sorts, that was passed around so much that it got the attention of Comedy Central, leading to Parker and Stone getting a chance to make a pilot for the network, which led to them getting their own series). This first episode was titled "Cartman Gets an Anal Probe" (Parker and Stone were definitely trying to push the boundaries of good taste right off the bat) and it told the story of how a group of alien "visitors" were visiting the small town of South Park, Colorado and performing anal probes on the citizens, including young foul-mouthed fourth grader Eric Cartman. The visitors abduct the younger brother of one of Cartman's classmates, Kyle Broflovski, and Kyle, Cartman and their two other friends and classmates, Stan and Kenny, must rescue Kyle's brother, Ike. Eventually, the boys use the anal probe that the visitors left in Cartman's ass to lure them back to Earth in time to rescue Ike.

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The visitors then leave...or DO they?

You see, while the aliens left, they did not leave for good, as they began appearing in the backgrounds of episodes of South Park, leading to the very popular claim that aliens have appeared hidden in every episode of South Park since. A quick Google check will bring you many references to this fact, like here from OMG Facts. Have they really appeared in every episode of South Park since, though?

No, no they have not.

Essentially, what we have here is something very similar to what happens with the urban legend about every episode of Seinfeld containing a reference to Superman (something I addressed in a Comic Book Legends Revealed years ago). People can't seem to be happy with something cool like this happening occasionally. Instead, it has to be exageratted to be happening all the time.

The alien sightings were never in every episodes, but they did appear with a great deal more frequency in the early seasons, including in the opening credits. As time went by, it seems as though the animators found the joke not as interesting, as the appearances became a good deal more sporadic.

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They picked up again in 2008's Season 12, though, as Comedy Central had a contest where fans could win stuff by finding the hidden visitors in each of the first seven episodes of Season 12.

South Park Studios have addressed this legend a few times over the years in the Frequently Asked Questions section on their website. In 2002...




QUESTION
How many episodes have "hidden visitors" in them?
ANSWER
Over half of them. Eric Stough, our Director of Animation, usually puts them in at the last minute. That is... if he remembers to. Unfortunately, he doesn't keep track of them, so we don't have exact numbers.


and in 2010...

QUESTION
I'm sure you've answered this a thousand times but I cannot find the answer: Is it true there is an alien in every episode?
ANSWER
In EVERY episode?? No way. But the Visitors are there quite a bit -- sometimes right in plain sight, sometimes with something as hidden as a little Visitor doodle.




The legend is...

STATUS: False

Check out this list of a BUNCH of examples of hidden Visitors on cracktwo.com.

Be sure to check out my archive of TV Legends Revealed for more urban legends about the world of films. And click here for legends just about animated TV series like South Park!

Feel free (heck, I implore you!) to write in with your suggestions for future installments! My e-mail address is bcronin@legendsrevealed.com.

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Prince Deserved a Hotter Tribute

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There've been lots of people defending Madonna's tribute to Prince at the Billboard Music Awards. They point out that she wore a flashy suit and there was a purple chair. Wasn't that well-staged?

Yeah, right, as if Prince was only about what things looked like.

Her singing was dull and boring. Think about it: would you ever use those words to describe Prince? Not even Stevie Wonder could save the day. Everything disappeared into a kind of artistic black hole and the tribute felt more like a dirge. Madonna might as well have worn full Victorian mourning with a floor length veil.

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People have defended her in all kinds of ways, like saying she was of the same generation as Prince blah blah blah. Questlove took her side in a major way, saying "Every Prince rendition will not be a life changing orgasmic experience. Just to SING his work is brave enough,"

That's a bogus argument. Would anyone seriously expect to have their life changed at a Prince tribute or pass out because they came so hard? What they would expect is musicality, excitement, and passion. The kind of passion Prince always had on stage, like when he beefed up "A Love Bizarre", the song he and Sheila E. wrote together and she had recorded in a more laid-back version. Watch that amazing video and dream of what the BBMA tribute might have been....

And since when is covering a Prince tune really about courage for other singers? So Madonna has to get props for showing up and trying? At her age, after her long and starry career? That's pathetic.

I've also seen this kind of argument: "What's the big deal? BBMA isn't going to be the only tribute. get over it." Well, that, too, is attacking a straw man. Who said it would be the only one? There can be a dozen tributes to Prince and people will be expressing themselves about their merits, just as they have been on this dud.

Now, I know there were fans complaining that Sheila E. and Morris Day would have been better choices. Better than Madonna for damned sure. I myself would have loved to see newer artists show what they could do with something hot of Prince's, singers like The Weekend and Janelle Monáe. That would have been a tribute to Prince's past and it would have shown his influence spreading out into the future.

It sure as hell wouldn't have been boring.

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IFAW Q&A with The Jungle Book Director Jon Favreau

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Walt Disney's live-action adaptation of Rudyard Kipling's The Jungle Book continues to break box-office records, and has been greeted with adoration by both fans and critics. The movie --which showcases an array of incredible animals--features the unique and highly endangered pangolin as one of the computer-generated animal characters who drops in on Mowgli the Man-cub during his adventures in the jungles of Central Asia.

Protecting pangolins from the wildlife trade is a big part of the work I do at IFAW and also as a member of the IUCN Pangolin Specialist Group. I was fortunate enough to be able to meet with The Jungle Book director Jon Favreau recently while I was in Los Angeles, and found out how the inclusion of the pangolin in the movie came about.


Jon, what motivated you to include a pangolin in The Jungle Book movie?

When we were meeting with the LA Zoo -- they were helping us with our research for the film -- they suggested that we consider featuring the pangolin because they live in that part of the world and they are an endangered species. We said that we would consider it and began doing research. I had never heard of pangolins before. When our art department pulled images, we were inspired by this interesting creature. We wrote the pangolin into the script and as the character developed, we became quite enamored with him.

What was the reaction at Disney when you told them you wanted to include a pangolin character?

We hadn't introduced Disney to the idea of the character until we were pretty far down the road. He was a supporting player but the scenes that I included him in had a lot of comedic impact. He quickly became a favorite in the screenings and I encouraged Disney to include him in their merchandizing. I explained that pangolins were endangered and that we should draw as much attention as we could to this species so that people might become aware of the danger they are in. The pangolin was added to the merchandise line-up in a commitment to raise awareness for the pangolin and the overall efforts of the Disney Conservation Fund.

There is a great line in the movie - both funny and educational - where Baloo the Bear jokingly threatens the pangolin by telling him he's never been a more endangered species than at that moment. Where did that line come from?

When I was recording with Bill Murray (voice of Baloo the Bear), the film only existed in my imagination and in rough sketches. In prepping Bill with backstory about the characters that were his friends, I gave him some background on the pangolin. The line was one of many that he improvised and it played really well in the scene. It also had the added benefit of drawing attention to the pangolins plight while still being entertaining.

Do you think that this movie - which used only CGI animated animals instead of live animals - will be a game-changer for the way animals are used in Hollywood going forward?

I think we've reached a point where computer generated animals make a lot of sense. It's safer for the people and it's safer for the animals. As a director this method gives me a lot more creative latitude. Technology is always offering opportunities to allow filmmakers to tell better stories and to make the set a safer place for all those involved, be it people or animals.

The pangolin was one of the few speaking animals in the movie that didn't have a name or a credited actor voicing the character. Was this on purpose?

He actually did have a name, it was Mr. Pangolin. He was one of many unbilled cameos in the film.

With the incredible success of The Jungle Book movie, what is your hope for how this could impact the future of pangolins?

The pangolin is one of many endangered species featured in the film. I voice a Pygmy Hog, which is another species worth mentioning. I think it's up to our generation and that of our children to consider the relationship that we have with nature. The way we interact with the world around us is going to determine to what extent that which came before us remains for generations to come. Educating kids and introducing them to these species might give them an opportunity to continue to exist as they have. It would be sad if the only examples of these creatures left in the world are the digital ones.

All eight species of pangolins are considered imperiled, however there are a number of opportunities coming up for greater protections - including a recent petition to list pangolins as Endangered under the US Endangered Species Act, a motion for a resolution calling for global protection of pangolins at the upcoming IUCN World Conservation Congress, and a suite of proposals for the CITES Conference of the Parties this fall, looking to give all pangolins the strongest protections possible from international commercial trade. For more information on how you can help pangolins, go to ifaw.org/pangolin.

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"Por Favor:" Brett Dennen's Busted and Mended Heart

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Up to this point, what we've heard from Brett Dennen is a young man with dreams, breaking through the surface with his art.

At the embrace of "Por Favor," (his sixth album, available May 20) all sides of the man, now 36, would change - one to the next, then to the another, and to the one after that, toppling like dominoes. The entire makeup of the man turned inside out.

"Por Favor" establishes the point of singularity and Dennen didn't hold back when it came to the emotional beats. Indeed, it's a thrill to hear Dennen go through this process, uncovering self-truths and forming new questions along the way. "Por Favor" paves a redemptive journey into a heart that's not always happy and draws a portrait of a maturing artist mired in shadow pining for daylight.

In this clever collection of hopeful renewal, Dennen runs and doesn't tire; sometimes serene and sometimes fierce, "Por Favor" nourishes healing assertions and sounds.

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The call of the music drove him to the place where he finally understood he could not outrun himself. And the beauty here is that no matter how much disappointment has cast a spell, and, no matter how much he doesn't believe in himself, Dennen perfectly presents his unsettled life. While lyrics rise as a storm behind his eyes, the music serves up soothing grooves to the air of an indomitable voice.

"I've never thought about the big picture, about what's at hand before," said Dennen. "Yet, more and more, I have the understanding of it, because I have 5 previously released albums now. I am more in the moment when I sit down and write. It doesn't have to be my 'rhythm and blues' record, or my 'country' record, or my 'Christmas' album. It's simply in the moment. But you've got to keep turning the page and moving on. I've learned that when writing and recording to be specific and true to yourself in the moment.

"I think I needed to grow and change and explore different directions, explore the melody and concepts and influences of different genres. I am trying out different places with my voice. It's a progression and I'm expanding my voice more and more. I have no vocal training or vocal coach, just figuring it out as I go, keeping it in the range that feels good."

Dennen's latest album is not only a cogent document that shepherded him through tenuous times, but a rendering of the perfectly incomplete allegory of art.

"I think there is an understanding that an album can never be complete and there is the tendency to want to make it better, and by attempting to make it better, you run the risk of taking away the natural authenticity that would be there if you had left it alone. I am of the mindset of celebrating the incomplete nature of the world of art. It's undercooked just enough and still in its raw tender state enough to be good. That's a hard place to figure out. There were times when I felt my vocals didn't sound confident, but (producer) Dave Cobb was great at getting the song done. Cobb is great at the art of working quickly and getting rid of the bullshit."

Producer Dave Cobb and Dennen met through a mutual friend; Cobb said that he heard Dennen's demos and was hooked.

"I love Brett,' said Dave Cobb. "He's a lineage of Paul Simon and I love Paul Simon. There is truth with his pen. He has the humor and wit and weight all in one fell swoop. He's doing it for the right reasons and what you hear is him being him. The record has a world aspect to it and it embraces that - African and Jamaican rhythms that play up on his story and get to know his story as a human being. The album plays to his strengths. In his darkest songs, he still has a light. He sees and hears the good in humanity. Even the really slow stuff creates uplifting and danceable songs."

As much as we'd like to ignore or suppress it, heredity and upbringing unmistakably rule our actions. Dennen didn't experiment with the guitar until his early teenage years. Unconfined by the tight parameters and way-too-defined expectations of institutionalized schooling, Dennen was home schooled and he whittled away the hours drawing, painting and writing poems.

"I was also comfortable at being creative and home schooling helped me identify myself as an artist," said Dennen. "I played little league baseball and I remember thinking, 'What else do I do really well?' I focused more and more on being an artist. No one taught me how to paint or play guitar, it's mostly figuring it out on your own. Adults tell themselves they can't do it or they can't pick up playing a guitar or the piano and some have turned off the gene firing in their brain, and the instinct to figure something out. Many have lost touch with that. What I like about working with kids is that it is always a reminder that the kids are the teachers, and they don't even know it."

Indeed, Dennen's sound has roots in the undeniable California charm of his upbringing.

"For sure," said Dennen. "For example, there is an energy to a place like Nebraska, right? It's desolate, and that has an impact on the soul. We are all born into a certain legacy. California is vastly diverse. Yet there is a certain kind of newness to California. I grew up in a farm town and I was also a part of the mountains, close by the Sierras, and near the ocean, in Santa Cruz. A lot of the minds that move to California are looking for something, if it's a goal or self-renewal, looking for something fresh, and California has a full source of energy to tap into.

"The spirit of California has a strong connection to the landscape. The mountains are a strong presence, green, and full of life, the energy is quiet. At home in Venice Beach, I try to get in the water every day and the ocean is constantly crashing and a constant rejuvenation. Sunshine makes it all feel chill and laid back. Music in California is rich, the heyday of California music, Joni Mitchell, Crosby Stills and Nash, The Eagles, Cat Stevens in Malibu. Whatever it has, it is something I gravitate toward for my own creativity."

Dennen harnessed and tapped into his internal energy and used it to advance the cause of "Por Favor." The upshot is the vibrant feel of the guidance of a good friend at a critical juncture.

"The album came from a time of vulnerability," said Dennen. "Who you think you are is always up for change. There are times when I'm a real confident person, and, at times, I'm insecure. When I first started writing, I was a little more shy, insecure, and naïve. I've tried to strengthen my own identity through being an artist. Art is creating the person I want to be through it and creating the world I want to exist in. But there have been curveballs. Losing a friend. A rocky relationship. Losing things in a fire. Losing a childhood home. Getting to the age where mentally and physically I've changed, and asking myself is it all worth it? Traveling a lot, while it is inspiring, it begs the question of whether or not I'm making a life that has meaning or not.

"There is the self-pressure of living up to the songwriting standard, the standard I've set for musicianship, and of pleasing the fans. The process of songwriting - asking is it good enough as it is, are the lyrics or music good enough - even without saying anything, is scary. These are slippery places to put myself in, and it's a very vulnerable place I've been in for a long time. It's me asking for help and asking people to take me as I am."

Dennen's sentimental groans gush forth like waters in a flood, his voice marvelously soft and pliable. His aspirations for certainty make the album poetic, especially on tracks such as "I'll Be On Your Side," which rings with the rawest of Dennen's power.

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"The trend of this album was a lot of really sad songs, a rainy day record, a little slow and moody, and some of them made it on the record. Some others were happy sounding, with a tinge of the sadness of complexity. That is pretty much my general nature. That's the mark I want to leave on the world, for sure. Those few happy songs -all of them made it on the record. It was soothing in helping myself feel good."

Owning a catalogue of upbeat songs is helpful to Dennen when he is on the road touring.

"There are musicians who go through a breakup, or something bad happens to them, and they crank out an album," said Dennen. "But I've never been one to be on the stage while people are commiserating with me. I like to see them sing along and dance. Then, maybe every 3, 4 songs, I do something that will break their heart. But I bring them back in. I want them to leave feeling better than they did when they got there. Performing 300 shows a year, it really helps when the music and the people that drive you and, who you attract, are positive. I'm 12 years into this, and 12 years of anything is a career. It's not going to get easier and I need to keep pushing myself to write and perform and stir up those things inside of me that I need to express, and I'll be alright."

Dennen bends all purposes to the process of seeking, finding, becoming, and serving his art.

"I use to dream of being the musician who has a tortured soul, and lives in torture, and I tried to write that way. But you've got to come up for air. It's more now about writing as a way of figuring out who I am. I'm not a great communicator or good at talking with friends or family about the hard stuff. Writing stirs up the emotions that I have, like tapping into the tree and letting a little bit out. It gives me a better understanding as to how I handle emotions in my own life."

Dennen said that when recording he finds himself in a different body, so to speak, and he can now decompress a slight bit and enjoy and share the bounty of "Por Favor."

"When I'm making a record, it's a different mode that I inhabit. It is the constant state of asking, of reflecting, and of thinking, and of questioning myself. I'm proud of this record and I know fans will like it. There is enough subtle complexity that it's going to creep into people, grow on them, and get them keeping the faith."

Photos courtesy Brett Dennen.

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Making a Film Is Only Half the Battle

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Making your first feature documentary is hard, and it's a process that you rarely get a close look at. This is why I decided to start documenting my own struggle as a filmmaker.

About three years ago I started working on my debut feature doc called The Pearl Of Africa. Making it seems to be impossible, which I why I decided to create a vlog about my struggle to make the film.

The Pearl Of Africa is a story about love, hate and being transgender, in one of the worlds most transphobic places, Uganda.

The film has been selected to Hot Docs, one of the world's largest documentary festivals. In this episode, we're screening the film for the first time in Toronto. But making the film, and having the world premiere is only half the battle, here's why...

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CHILDREN, BEHAVE! Pop Sensation TIFFANY'S Wise Words To Millennials!

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It's been almost thirty years since Tiffany Renee Darwish, or better known to the public as just Tiffany, covered Tommy James and the Shondells, "I think We're Alone Now" and shot to superstardom, and the tune is still stuck in fans heads and hearts. More popular than even "Call Me Maybe" at the time, Tiffany's catchy chords and raspy voice has resonated deeply with a devoted fan base that spans generations- and if the latest reboots of all things 80's and 90's have proved anything, it's that millennials are loyal fans to the things that warm their nostalgic hearts.

With the major anniversary of her first big hit coming up, Tiffany is back on tour with her new album; A Million Miles, and she couldn't be more excited to spend time in the studio, produce- a new experience for her that she's thrilled about- and perform for her fans- which she says is her favorite part of the gig. If there were any doubts to the statement or thoughts that she could be pandering, that is put to rest by how long she spends with each fan during her meet in greet after the show and how much they love her. She is simply a breath of fresh air as she speaks, still the vibrant Tiffany who put on the shows in shopping malls as she gushes in her raspy voice about how much she adores her fans right back, her advice toward young stars, spending all that time in malls, who she admires in the business, and more!


You have such a big millennial following of fans that adore you. This generation is so nostalgic for their youths- especially right now- why do you think that is?

"I think you could be individual- everyone was coming on the scene for the very first time. People ranged from conservative, I was more conservative, to wild- like Cyndi Lauper or Adam Ant- I'm a huge Adam Ant fan. Self-expression was huge. Cell phones were just started. Everything felt like it was on fire. Now everyone seems more jaded. Even the way they promoted shows- there was more excitement and more build up. The world really knew how to be excited for things before and it made things feel more celebratory."

You were really lucky to reach super-stardom before twitter and social media, which can be really cruel to a lot of young stars today. What are your thoughts on this?
"I'm not big on the cattiness of social media- it's not my thing. I think some people like it, it's a soap opera. Some people feel it helps their career- I really don't want that to be that way to boost my career- to be hurtful. I'm not a bully. I try and keep it positive- I'm not a hater. If we don't get along- that's fine. We don't need to be in each others space."

A lot of stars today rush to grow up, but you kept your image very wholesome while in your teen years- your songs were featured on Full House, and you did voice-work in The Jetsons. Was that a conscious effort?
"I was definitely exposed to stuff- it's all there for you, I had drivers always and there was alcohol and parties and peer pressure- but I always respected that I had a platform. Not to say I'm perfect- and there are definitely times I fell off that platform. But, what I get to do is such a tremendous gift- and I really love it and never took it for granted. Not many people get to say they want to be a singer and it happens- I was so lucky and I knew it. I always thought to myself; 'All I really need is someone to snap a picture and then I have a fan out there thinking I let them down'...so I really took it very seriously."

What advice do you have to young artists who are experiencing these invasive attacks on their privacy now?
"I think it's different for them because it's so much more intrusive- and it's not just the press, which is scary. You start to worry about who you can trust in your camp- who is out to get you from your own team, or even your friends- and that's hard. In the end, and this is the truth, the people you can trust most are your fans- because they love you for you, and they are real with you and want you to be real with them. They are the ones that are going to be with you for the long haul. The media will always pick you up and spit you out- it's the rise and fall and nature of the beast. But the fans who love you will love you no matter what- so make sure you love them."


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Are there any young artists you particularly admire?

"I admire anyone who does this cause it's hard- and I admire that they are living their lives artistically and in the public eye. But, that said, I can definitely say I have strong admiration for Taylor Swift. Not just for her artistry, but also for her image. I think that Taylor really sets an example that is positive for young girls and I have a lot of God-daughters, and there wasn't a lot of people I was feeling too great about letting them look up to and I really like that she came along. She's an excellent inspiration for young women- and she treats her fans amazing. She shines a great light for them. There are others too, of course, but she really sticks out for me."
(We know Taylor Swift loves to bring people up for surprise duets in her concerts- time for them to duet "I Think It's Alone Now!")

Your hit "I Think We're Alone Now" is a cover of Tommy James and The Shondells original. Did you ever get a chance to sing with him?

"No, I never did! And I would love to! We've spoken on the phone, but never performed the song together!"
(Add Tommy James to the Taylor Swift/Tiffany performance- stat!)


You're extremely dedicated to LGBTQ rights and play a lot of pride events. Talk about how that cause became close to you.
"As I mentioned, I do have a strong bond with my fans and I have a big LGBTQ fan-base- so it's the music that brought us together and hearing people's stories, and the more I listened to their stories of how they struggled and felt hurt being in the public eye and how they related to my music for their own personal reasons I felt that bond- and then even more at home I realized how much I could relate because I was constantly being judged in the public eye and then when I was going home I would whither through an emancipation process- which so many of these fans understood, or were going through. So, I was a teenager just like so many of them were who were struggling with the same home life and identity issues and it really was such a deep bond that will bring you together- and again- the fans are the people that you learn out of everyone you can trust."

Spending so much time in shopping malls on tour when you were young gave you a sense of shopping- you opened your own boutique! Talk about that.
"It unfortunately just closed because I didn't feel I could give it my 100% while I was touring this year. 'Shopping with Tiffany' is a big part of it- and I work with women from size 2 to 22 and I really like being with them and helping them feel beautiful. I will pick it back up again- in a neighborhood outside of Nashville. Nashville is changing. Nashville is cool- but I need something a little more funky."

What's next for you?
"Right now I'm ready to tour internationally- and so excited- this is my first time doing this in a while. So excited to be producing. If something came up where I could act or do more voice-over work, I would love to pop in and do it- especially if it were sci-fi- I'm a huge sci-fi fan! But right now, more than anything, I can't wait to perform A Million Miles for all the fans that have always been there and show them what I've been up to."

And judging by the warm reception from Tiffany's fans? The feeling is more than mutual. If the stars of today want a long-lasting and loving relationship with their fans? They should certainly follow Tiffany's eloquent advice. We could use more class acts like her.

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Kathy Griffin: "No One Has The Donald Trump Stories I Have"

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As she tours the country on her ever-growing eighty stop comedy tour, Kathy Griffin is eviscerating Kardashians, Donald Trump, and everyone in between. With razor sharp wit and masterful timing, Griffin is the go-to performer to get the real deal on current events and pop culture, mostly because she knows them personally! We sat down with her as she prepared for the Wild West Comedy Festival to chat about Blac Chyna, her darling and wine swilling mother Maggie, and Mr. Trump himself.


So I have managed to get some free time with you on your insane eighty stop tour! Next up; Nashville for the Wild West Comedy Festival on May 21st! How is it going to be doing Kathy Griffin in the red state of Tennessee?
My show in Nashville is going to be all new material! Here's the thing; Tennessee is a red state but Nashville is a blue city. I'm gonna give em' a beat down about this "HB1840" law thing, I'm gonna hassle em! You know, it's getting crazier, and that's where I come in.

One of the best things about doing this tour is this; Fox News has absolutely nothing on me with their "Real America" bullshit because I let me tell you something, I am truly going to the real America! I mean, I went to Carnegie Hall in New York City in November, which was wonderful of course. I'm also going to Thousand Oaks, California, Cedar Rapids, Des Moines, Lincoln, Kansas, where you know those Fred Phelps/"God Hates Fags" people will be there because, what else do they have to do?! I'l be in Minneapolis, Indiana, Vegas, Lancaster, CA, Bethlehem, PA, I mean I am everywhere! I'm not gonna hold back because this election is so insane!


This has to be the most feverish election cycle we have ever seen.
Everyone is talking about! The added bonus is that I have known that fool Donald Trump for decades. I have personal stories with him.

Did you ever think he would ever get this far in the process? I mean, he is actually going to be the Republican nominee!
Honey, I didn't even put it in my act because he was irrelevant! My audience wants to hear about Cher, Anderson Cooper, that stuff. In Nashville, I can tell about this amazing run in I just had with Sean Penn. I also just saw Barbra Streisand recently, that's always incredible. I can talk about an amazing run-in with Leonardo DiCaprio. But you know, I have to tell these Trump stories because they are fucking jaw-droppers! When you're a fifty-five year old female stand up comic with no network support, no studio support, let me tell you, the cheese stands alone. I have been fighting sexism and ageism in particular, in stand up, that I just don't give a fuck. Even though he's the Republican front runner, I will be telling these Donald Trump stories that I've been keeping in the coffer because nobody really cared. So no, never in my wildest dreams did I think that the guy I run into on this red carpet or this party, or the guy I sat next two at the fucking Larry King Birthday Celebration is someone I would ever put in my act. Everyone knows he's fucking nuts and that was that.

Since there is so much in the world to talk about now, how do you decide what to deliver to the audience?
Believe it or now, I'm actually thoughtful about what I choose to put into the act and what I don't. I change it every night and I change it every city. We always start with local material, that's what makes it fun. But this Donald Trump material, nobody's got anything on me. No one has these Donald Trump stories; maybe Melania, God knows how else she gets through the night, if you know what I'm saying. I have a story about spending a day with the Donald and Liza Minnelli at his golf course in Connecticut. It's unreal; you should buy a ticket for that story alone! In addition to that, we will be discussing the news of the day, the stories of the day, the political landscape, the pop culture landscape, it's all changing so fast! I think I started the tour with forty cities and now it's eighty!


You're absolutely right. No one knew that the MIchael Strahan/Kely Ripa morning show war would break out, and no one expected Sharon and Ozzy Osbourne's marriage to implode and for her to speak about it openly on "The Talk". Everything changes so quickly in today's pop culture world.
Yup; and I know them all. I know them ALL! When I talk about these things, I don't say, "hey this random person is going through this". I'm saying, "well, the last time I saw them, this happened". It's changing every minute. Someone just sent me an article that I am in Variety magazine today. There's an article in "Variety Dirt" which is like, their real estate section that I am house hunting. They actually show a photo of a house that I actually was in escrow on and that I dropped out of because it didn't pass inspection. I had an all cash offer, two week escrow, and now I'm not even going to live there. Someone leaked it to fucking Variety! My agents and stuff are going to be like "can we come to your new house"? It's all so tied in now and it's all happening so fast. I mean, I don't know if I should be reading Donald Trump's tweets next to Kanye West's tweets, or what, they're just so similar.

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Everything is really so cyclical in this world now, because Arnold Schwarzenegger, who was part of the political landscape as the Governor of California, is now the host of the new "Celebrity Apprentice".
Ok, let me tell you something don't even start me on that my friend. People are cavalier about recalls, but I lived through that. I saw my poor Gray Davis, who was railroaded. If you ever see the Enron documentary "The Smartest Guy In The Room", they really lay out how Ken Lay and all those crooks really helped unseat Gray Davis and had a recall. Now being a California resident, even though I am a Chicago girl, hearing people say "you know what would be cool, if we had the Governator man"! Then we were stuck with that moron for eight years. Now we have a drought that was never addressed, and we were in debt. It's not so cool to have a celebrity act like they know how to run anything. I think that Schwarzenegger should just go away, he should go away from television.


And in terms of sexism, I am a fifty-five year old female. I've had four television shows, I have two Emmy's and a Grammy, and that fool, who has been immersed in nothing but scandal and being a horrible politician, he has a show on the air now and I don't? Fuck that shit! I love to openly call out sexism and ageism, and dammit, i do it with my little bucket of dick jokes, town by town.


Your fans are anxiously awaiting another book from you also!
I'm writing a book right now that comes out December 27th. I just came up with the idea one night. My last book was in 2007, and granted, it went to Number One on the New York Times Best Seller List, but I wasn't going to write another book until I thought I really have a fun reason to write one. The new book is called "Kathy Griffin's Celebrity Run-In's; An Index From A-Z". It comes out on Macmillan Books on December 27th, and I'll have a signing at Barnes & Noble on the actual release date. And of course, I'll be holding it up on New Year's Eve with Anderson Cooper. It's so much fun to write because over the years, I really have run into everyone. This book isn't stuff from my act, it's these little snippets, 500-750 words. It's everyone from Meghan Trainor to Cher. Everyone from Suge Knight to Salman Rushdie. I mean, I met Gerald Ford. I have a story about Kendall Jenner. I really have ended up rubbing elbows with everyone, be it from the charity circuit, awards shows, hosting events, everything. I mean, last night I hosted an event for Iraq & Afghanistan Veterans of America. I love to be a host and I attend everything. When you're doing eighty cities, you're not really a recluse. I'm all over the place. Everywhere I go, I know it sounds cliche, but I really do have friends all over. I write about these experiences and how I run into eveybody I reach out to people all the time and I love courting these interesting people. Like last Friday night after my show, I had dinner with Wayne Gretzky, the hockey player. He came to my show, bought a t-shirt, and we had dinner. It was like "ok check that off the bucket list", My normal audience fans would never think that I would want to meet Wayne Gretky. Met him, had dinner, and twatted the picture. Check and check!

Seeing you is always an experience and I've gotten to seen you four times! Most recently, at the Borgata in Atlantic City.
Oh god I love ya Cookie! I've done specials at the Borgata, it's really great. It can be tough though, because it's risers, it's not a typical theater. So some of the people may be rolling in from the casino. I'm always mindful of the venue too. For example, when I'm at the James Polk in Nashville, it will be a regular theatre, it's part of a comedy fest, I know my good friend Vinnie Vaughn who is running it is a Republican, so I'll try to walk the line. I've played the South before but honey, I've played the "Dirty South"! Nashville is nothing! I've played Parkersburg, West Virginia! Ive done shows where someone is literally yelling from the balcony "Make America Great Again" and I'm like "calm down; it's not a rally, it's a comedy show, everyone relax"!

I think the best thing about you is that you literally never will have anything to talk about. I mean, the Kardashians alone are literally a faucet of material that never really will be shut off.
Yes! And also they're multiplying. I mean, the idea that Blac Chyna is an honorary Kardashian and that Kris Jenner may or may not be upset about it is also a bonanza because I now know Kris Jenner. So you now know that the next time I see Kris Jenner she'll be running from me in a dress and heels while I'm going "Kris Kris!" like I'm a reporter. It's like "Boston Globe here Kris, how do you really feel about Blac Chyna'? Howard Stern likes to tease me he always says "I can't believe you have the nerve to leave your house". The thing is, that's where I get my material. It's my job. This is what we do.

I want you to know, that when I met Prince fucking Charles, Joan Rivers took me to Buckingham Palace as her plus one! That one was book-worthy, I said to myself that I wasn't telling that one until a book! Joan introduced me and said "this is my friend, the outrageous comedian from America Kathy Griffin". Prince Charles pulled me in and said "if it weren't for journalists and comedians, who would keep us honest"?. Prince Charles admitted that! I don't think Donald Trump will ever admit that about comedians or journalists.


And don't you get scared when he points them out? At his rallies he points out poor little Katy Tur, but he points them out in rallies in front of of ten thousand people. I always feel, I mean, he has a security team, there should be Secret Service for the journalists. Like the poor person from NPR. I also will not be putting up with any heckling or disruptions at my show, although disruptions at my show although a disruption at my show is usually a gay guy going "talk about Cher bitch"! A disruption is a disruption. By the way, the person usually yelling that is Anderson Cooper.

In plain talk, you are a queen to the gay community. They absolutely adore you!
Well we have a lot of work to do. We have this HB1840 bill, we have the North Carolina law, I still can't believe Governor McCrory doubled down! Honey, let me tell you, you got Deutsche Bank moving, and I hate to say this, since you know I'm a gay man, but the minute the sports pull out, it's all over. I know thats not the way it should be, it should be that the LGBT organizations should be enough. The truth is you get the NBA, or the NFL or the NCAA pull out and the minute they do, you're going to see those politicians be kicked out of office in two-seconds Because money talks and bullshit walks. I have to point out though, a point i hope you enjoy; I thinks it's so funny, I love Rachel Maddow. Everyone should know, I'm a big fat lefty, everyone should know before they come to Nashville and come and heckle me. I love that Rachel Maddow says that of the businesses pulling out of North Carolina, not only does she talk about the businesses we're talking about, but she also throws in the porn site Xhamster. My boyfriend is always like "YES"! He's like "porn serves the community". You know the straights, you can't trust the straights as far as you can throw em. You have to put up with them, but eventually we'll take over.

How was Mother's Day with Maggie?
(Heavy Sigh). Because you've come to see me four times, II'm gonna be honest. 'm going to tell you something because I hope that your love for her is unconditional. When Maggie mixes boxed wine and champagne...Cookie, I can't control her. She's ninety-five She said to me, and I quote "you know what I miss Kathleen? I miss the Nixon years". I mean, people always like to say that they miss the Regan years since they like to rewrite history ,but the Nixon years? Nixon who resigned in shame? She goes "See Kathleen, you're being dramatic". I had to take it further because I knew I could put it into the act and I asked her why she missed the NIxon years. She was like "because there's too much god damn unrest in this country and I remember when Tricia Nixon got married and that was lovely and the whole country united". Sorry, I'm actually speechless. You may write a hate piece about my mother but I don't blame you. Ive never heard someone that said they missed the Nixon years, but she was drunk, so I'm going to give her the Liza pass, she was drunk. I do take responsibility for her as she is my responsibity so I apologize on her behalf.


I was the last LGBT journalist to interview Joan Rivers and she mentioned you several times during our chat. Its like with the pop culture and political landscape as it is now, you have definitely taken up that mantle.
Aww. you know, there are some Joan Rivers stories in my act, and I always tell people it's not sad its gonna be funny She was the shit. I miss her every day.

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A-Sides with Jon Chattman: Embrace the "Fresh" Sounds of Chris Stylez and the Bones of J.R. Jones

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"Fresh." It was a word we all used to death in the 1980s, and it's time for us to bring it back. Too many things from that decade have been branded as "cheesy" or "over-the-top" but that word resonates and should've never gone out of style. I've said it once and I'll say it again - "fresh" needs to be in vernacular on the daily. Using the word "epic" a few years ago quickly jumped the shark. "Fresh" is forever.

Anyway, that brings me to two very fresh artists today. Chris Stylez is first up. If the Kardashians "broke the Internet" (they didn't), an argue can be made this R&B singer broke Vine The musician has netted over 50 million Vine loops based off original tracks he released on the interwebs. Countless brands - from Teen Vogue to the Denver Broncos - drank his Kool-Aid and make up a cunk of said loops. But, the artist is more than short video soundtracks. A true original, whose songs have taken flight throughout the globe (like literally), is currently out promoting his Who Is EP. At the Music Conservatory of Westchester last month, he played a track and sat down for a fresh chat. Watch the videos -filmed by Alye Carlevero - below.





Bones


How fresh is Jonathon Linaberry? He performs under the moniker The Bones of J.R. Jones. That's pretty badass. I should perform under a moniker, but first I should take music lessons. Anyway, the Brooklyn-based singer/songwriter is much cooler for his music- notably the sound of his utterly original vocals. There will never be any mistaking JRJ for any other artist out there. His voice is on a different, and much more bluesy planet. Anyway, he stopped by the Conservatory to perform two tracks and sat down for a fun interview as well. Follow this guy's path. He'll be on the road in support of his second album Spirit's Furnace. He's as refreshing as lemonade at a lemonade stand if kids still do that.





A-Sides' "Delve Into Twelve" Countdown
Each week A-Sides unleashes its top 12 tracks of the week AKA the "Delve Into Twelve" based on the following contributing factors: songs I'm playing out that particular week (no matter when they were released -- think overlooked songs, unreleased tracks and old favorites), songs various publicists are trying to get me to listen to that I did and dug a bunch, song posts and trends I've noticed on my friends' Facebook walls and, most importantly: what my toddler is currently enjoying thoroughly with an assist from my infant.



About A-Sides with Jon Chattman - thisisasides.com :
Jon Chattman's music/entertainment series typically features celebrities and artists (established or not) from all genres performing a track, and discussing what it means to them. This informal series focuses on the artist making art in a low-threatening, extremely informal (sometime humorous) way. No bells, no whistles -- just the music performed in a random, low-key setting followed by an unrehearsed chat. In an industry where everything often gets overblown and over manufactured, Jon strives for a refreshing change. Artists featured on the series include Imagine Dragons, Melissa Etheridge, Yoko Ono, Joe Perry, Alice Cooper, fun, Bleachers, Charli XCX, Marina and the Diamonds, and Bastille.

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Marvel Fans, This is The Apocalypse You're Going To Wish Made It To The Movie Screen

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Most Marvel fans aren't too happy with the images of Apocalypse - Marvel's arguably most strongest and scariest mutant seems to be lacking the scare factors most fans are used to. This week on AOL BUILD, the cast will be coming in studio to talk about the the anticipated film which will be following the success of 'Captain America: Civil War'. Below are some photos of famed costume designer Jose Fernandez and his rendition of Apocalypse. It looks eerily similar to the the super villain we all know and fear.

Thanks to the awesome writers at Comic Book Resources for the information and images, here's the complete story.

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Ironhead Studio -- the costume design company headed by superhero movie artist extraordinaire Jose Fernandez -- stopped by Monsterpalooza 2016, in the company's first-ever convention appearance, to discuss the various helmets and suits they've made, in addition to showing off an unused Apocalypse design that successfully rips the character right from the comics.

Fernandez created the unused Oscar Isaac Apocalypse mold, after another studio was ultimately chosen for the design, as a personal challenge.

Fernandez discussed his work in the superhero movie industry with Tested, reflecting on his earliest professional work, with his design for the "Batman Returns" Catwoman costume, to his most recent projects, like "Captain America: Civil War" and "Batman v Superman."

After reimagining the Catwoman costume, Fernandez went on to work on the various movie batsuits -- eventually going on to design Christian Bale's cowl, which was the first to allow a Batman actor to turn their head.

Check out a few of Fernandez's costume designs for "Batman v Superman's" trinity, "Tron: Legacy" and "G.I. Joe," along with his various helmets for Black Panther, Loki, Thor, Daredevil, Thanos and Captain America, below:

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Here's Tested's full interview with Fernandez:

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